A question for men: I’ve recently gotten into fashion and am thinking about getting piercings, but would men be disappointed if I suddenly got them despite never having had any before?
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I’d like to get about four piercings total, two in each ear. Would that alone be a turnoff for some men?
I’m in my 30s and new here.
Personally, I don’t mind ear or navel piercings as long as they suit the person. But I’m someone who likes kissing and licking ears, so I’d probably find them a bit in the way if she kept them in, haha.
Also, I’m not really into women dressed head-to-toe in black with lots of earrings. I think it varies from man to man.
It might also just be a matter of getting used to them. I used to dislike navel piercings, but these days they don’t bother me at all.
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I’m a male member, date◎yume.
I pretty much feel the same as Seattle and U.S.T.
I’d be okay with one simple earring in each ear, I guess.
But I’d honestly be uncomfortable with tongue or navel piercings, tattoos, or flashy nails.
Sorry—I’m a country boy with old-fashioned tastes.
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Aizawa from the event team at East Customer Loyalty Group here.
I’m too scared to get my ears pierced myself!!
That said, I think having one or two piercings in the earlobes is pretty normal.
Personally, if someone has piercings in the cartilage along the rim of their ear rather than in the earlobe, they look a little intimidating and I feel hesitant to approach them.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> I’d like to get about four piercings in both ears. Would some men be put off by that alone?
I think some would.
Personally, I don’t mind someone having lots of piercings, but I’d be more curious about what’s behind that feeling. I might start wondering whether it’s less about fashion and more akin to self-harm.
That said, one piercing in each ear is pretty normal, so I don’t think you need to worry. Why not start with one in each ear and see how things go?
Even if you later get two in each ear—four in total—I think many men would find that just barely acceptable. But since it really is only just within their comfort zone, I recommend starting with one each.
(Though my honest recommendation would be no piercings at all.)
If things develop into a long-term relationship, you’ll probably ask the man what he thinks anyway, so you can judge from his response. If you then remove them or adjust accordingly, I think men tend to appreciate women who are willing to accommodate their partner.
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
More than two piercings on each side is a turnoff for me. If anything, I prefer no piercings.
Some people with tattoos are nice, of course, but I generally pass on making an initial offer. I’m also not a fan of flashy nails.
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