I have a question about allowance.

Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > We didn’t discuss any of the terms of the arrangement at all, such as how many times we’d meet each month or how much money would be involved. You’re getting ahead of yourself. From what you’ve described, it sounds like you’ve only agreed to meet again—you haven’t entered into a monthly or ongoing arrangement yet. If you had an adult relationship (intimate) the first time, I think it’s reasonable to assume the allowance will be the same next time. If you didn’t, it’s not too late to confirm the terms when he invites you out again. In fact, that’s normally when you would discuss them. That said, some men don’t want to discuss the terms in advance, which makes things difficult. If he’s that kind of man, you can simply consider him incompatible with you—but you still need to confirm the terms beforehand. It’s absolutely essential. However, some men prefer to give the allowance afterward, so this is a very difficult issue. Whether you trust him or not is for you to decide at your own risk. There’s always a chance you could be deceived. It’s frightening. But some men will appreciate the fact that you overcame that fear and chose to trust them. It’s something of a gamble. In the end, you either need to get better at judging men or make sure you always receive the allowance in advance.

Mamiya from East Customer Loyalty Group will answer your question. It sounds like your first date went wonderfully. The man you met is probably thinking that something romantic has begun between you. So it was the right call not to bring up the allowance. That said, I understand why you’re trying to stay level-headed. It’s similar to wondering, “When do we put on a condom?” when things are about to get intimate. This relationship might not last very long. In romantic terms, perhaps you simply have different values. Still, it’s too early to jump to conclusions, so you may want to wait and see how the next date goes. If he’s inexperienced, you could bring it up as a consultation and let him think it through himself: “I heard about this from a friend and looked it up online, but are the terms usually decided in advance? How should we arrange things for future dates?”