Tips
Oct 10, 2019 19:14
6 answers
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
For a first meeting, I think sweets would be better.
Once you’ve started seeing each other, though, a handkerchief might be more appropriate.
(By then, you’ll probably know their preferences, so it might be something other than a handkerchief.)
Other
I’m a BB7 male member.
I’ve been given sweets as gifts at the first meeting twice. Both women were genuinely kind and had great personalities.
I feel like something that gets eaten and is gone right away suits this kind of relationship.
Things you wear or keepsakes feel a little emotionally heavy to me, whether they’re given at the first meeting or later on...
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member based in Seattle.
Personally, I prefer someone without cosmetic work. Everyone has their own preferences.
More importantly, I enjoy spending time with someone who smiles and talks a lot.
The best gift I’ve ever received was when a woman offered me her hand for a handshake as we said goodbye. We’re still close to this day.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
A small box of sweets would be perfect. I recommend waiting until you’ve gotten closer before giving anything lasting.
Other
I’m a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
Since it’s your first meeting, I think snacks would be better than a handkerchief.
As momo mentioned, if he’s married, he might not know what to do with a handkerchief. Also, since he’s coming from far away this time, I think he’d appreciate some local food or snacks.
*Personally, I’d definitely love something local, haha.*
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
Personally, I’d be happier with a handkerchief. The only gift I’ve ever received on a first meeting was one, actually. Things didn’t work out with her in the end, unfortunately, but it had a simple, elegant design, so I still use it regularly. If you grow close, it can also become a meaningful keepsake.
I wouldn’t recommend sweets, since everyone has different tastes. Even if you give them some, they may not eat them, so it’s probably best not to ask for their thoughts afterward.