I’m the person who previously asked how to set the terms for a woman I was considering a monthly arrangement with.
I’d like to discuss things thoroughly with her and build a mutually satisfying relationship.
By the way, it seems that some of the respondents also have favorite women they like enough to enter into monthly arrangements with.
How often do you usually contact someone you like that much?
I’m really into my favorite, so I feel like messaging her on LINE once every day or two. I don’t want to annoy her, so I’m restraining myself to once or twice a week, though…
We’re both anime fans and have a lot to talk about, so we always get carried away whenever we message. If you really hit it off with someone, do you contact them frequently, or only when asking them out on a date?
I’d appreciate your advice.
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
I don’t primarily use dating clubs for their social scene, so I don’t initiate contact via LINE.
Basically, I only respond when women contact me first. Since my situation is different from yours, I’m afraid this may not be much help...
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I’m Rura, a UC male member and a member of the new salon.
In my case, the woman I’m seeing is often busy with work, so we usually exchange longer LINE messages about once every three days and arrange to meet.
If we’re both off work and the conversation gets lively, we sometimes keep messaging back and forth for several days in a row.
Since we have a solid monthly arrangement, it’s not the kind of relationship where we only message about the logistics of our next meeting.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Since we’re both anime fans, we have a lot to talk about, and every time we message on LINE, we really hit it off.
If you’re both anime enthusiasts, I think it’s fine. As long as she replies, there’s no problem with continuing to message her.
If she doesn’t reply, it’s probably just a coincidence or she may be having an off day. In those cases, I think it’s best to simply wait a little longer for her response.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
In my case, it’s about once a day on average.
Sometimes I get contacted twice in one day.
There are hardly any days when I don’t hear from someone—or don’t reach out myself.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I contact my favorite girls based on what we talked about during our previous date. For example, if she mentioned going to an event, I’ll ask how it went. Usually, I reach out a few times a month.
With the others, I’ll just make similar small talk when arranging schedules, and I rarely contact them otherwise.
Messages from women are generally about the same.
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