I’m a female member getting ready for my first date.
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It’s been about two weeks since I joined, and the day of my very first date is finally approaching.
I’ve read the club’s guides, “Tips for Being Liked by Men” and “The Types of Women Men Dislike,” over and over. I’ve also bought a new skirt and have been studying makeup magazines, enjoying this exciting and nerve-racking time.
At the same time, I’m a little anxious. I wonder whether he might be disappointed when he sees me, whether I’ll be able to keep the conversation going, and whether he’ll like me. I can’t help thinking that this might be my first and last offer.
So I’d like to ask all of you more experienced club members. From a woman’s perspective, do you have any success stories about things that went well on your first date, or anything you later regretted not doing? Alternatively, from a man’s perspective, was there anything a woman said or did on a first date that made you happy, or anything that made you wish she had done a little more?
I’d really appreciate any answers. Thank you in advance.
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
Reading your question and momo’s answer makes my heart flutter.
I feel like bringing a small gift—something like cookies that your papa can enjoy on the way home—would leave a good impression.
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I’m Rura, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
It’s natural to feel nervous before your first date, isn’t it? And I think it’s wonderful—and very appealing—that you’re working so hard to prepare for it♪
You’ve already done a lot of research, and the other respondents have offered plenty of advice, so I’ll just add one thing:
“Please try to make sure that you, yourself, enjoy the date.”
For me, the best kind of date is one where the woman I’m with genuinely seems to be having a great time.
I hope you have the good fortune to meet someone wonderful.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
As others have said, a smile is unbeatable. (Haha)
When the conversation stalls, I think it helps to look the other person in the eye and smile. That alone can make you forget the conversation ever paused.
A little thoughtfulness also goes a long way. Even if you think it’s nothing special, being considerate can make a great impression.
Also, if you go in with overly high expectations, you may end up disappointed. It’s probably best to keep your expectations broad enough that you won’t be too shaken if things don’t go as hoped.
The important thing is to act in a way you’re comfortable with, so you won’t regret it later.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
Even if he seems used to it, the man is probably still a little nervous too. If he says or does something awkward, please be a little forgiving.
Personally, I like women who keep the conversation going. Try your best to talk about things like your hobbies.
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