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Oct 7, 2019 18:46
4 answers
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> “My relationship with my husband is bad. I’m considering getting a divorce.”
That doesn’t seem very reassuring to me.
If she were already divorced, you could feel at ease. And if she were in the middle of divorce mediation, I might say it could be worth taking the risk and getting involved, but…
If you’re feeling uneasy about it, I think you’d be better off looking for someone else.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member in Seattle.
Maybe she simply meant that you’re more attractive than her husband. I can’t tell whether she was being sincere or just flattering you, though.
You should be careful if the atmosphere starts crossing the line.
Other
I’m Rula, a male UC member and a member of the new salon.
In a dating club, men have the right to say no as well as women. If the terms don’t work for you, you’re perfectly entitled to turn it down.
I think it’s best to simply stick to: “A regular pay-per-meeting arrangement is fine with me.”
If she asks for anything more, you can just say, “I’m sorry, but I can’t accommodate that,” and decline.
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
There’s nothing wrong with getting married through a dating club, but I personally can’t see myself doing that—that’s just how I feel.
So if she’s starting to expect more from you than before, I would step away if I were you.
Actually, I also get the feeling that the timing may already be a little off...