From a woman’s perspective: Some men silently remove the condom, and I really wish they wouldn’t.
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I feel this way, but is it normal for there to be a certain number of men who want to go without one?
If you’re going to remove it, I want you to tell me properly (although I’ll refuse).
If someone removes it without saying anything, I’m left wondering, “Why???” There have even been times when it was too dark for me to notice, and we ended up going all the way without protection.
I imagine there are also women who have only just joined and are too timid to firmly refuse.
I’d like to share this as one woman’s opinion: Please don’t assume that the idea “She didn’t say anything after I removed it and we went all the way, so it must have been okay” applies to everyone.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> There are men who silently remove the condom without permission. I want them to stop.
Those men are absolutely reprehensible.
If you encounter someone like that, please be sure to report him to the club. When questioned, men like this will come up with all kinds of excuses, so one report alone may not be enough for us to forcibly terminate his membership.
However, if we receive the same report from two or three women, it will be clear that he’s lying, no matter what excuses he makes, and we can forcibly terminate his membership.
Please don’t think you should simply put up with it yourself. Report it properly so that other women don’t become victims as well.
Men should understand that this vile act of removing a condom without consent is grounds for considering forced termination of their membership. You could even consider suing him for rape.
At present, your claim may not be readily accepted simply because you went to the hotel willingly. However, if you file a complaint and an investigation is launched, that alone may be enough to cause serious trouble for the man.
Please don’t take this lightly. Think it through carefully and handle the situation appropriately and respectfully.
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
Even giving you the benefit of the doubt, I assume you’re prepared to cover a lifetime’s worth of child support and expenses, right?
This isn’t some anonymous dating site. Otherwise, I simply can’t believe you.
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