This is Rula, one of the respondents. I’d like to use this space to say thank you and share an update.
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The other day, I asked about how, after finding an extraordinary woman who matched me for a monthly arrangement, making new offers no longer felt quite right.
Thank you very much to all the respondents who sent me so many thoughtful replies—people I consider fellow members of this community.
And recently, I suddenly came to feel completely at peace with my feelings.
I can now say with absolute certainty: “From here on, no matter how many dozens or hundreds of new offers I make, I’ll never meet anyone who surpasses this woman. Even if the most beautiful and kind woman in the world appeared right in front of me, my feelings would no longer be shaken in the slightest.”
*Over the past month, I met quite a number of new women from THE SALON’s Universe Platinum and Black classes, but none of them came close to the woman I’m currently seeing...
With that, I’d like to declare that I am ending all my activities with dating clubs, and express my deepest gratitude to Universe Club and THE SALON.
From now on, I want to focus entirely on this one woman and do my best to spend even richer, more fulfilling time together.
Since this is a Q&A box, I’ll include a question as well...
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Even after I’m no longer a member, can I continue participating as a respondent?
Thank you in advance.
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> Can I continue answering questions after I’m no longer a member?
Once you’re no longer a member, you’ll also lose your privileges as an answerer.
The only people who can answer without being members are column writers and in-house staff.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
I’m truly happy for you that you were able to meet someone like that.
I’ve always admired how thoughtful and wonderful your answers are, Rula.
I look forward to continuing to connect with you.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’d like to add a few words as well…
> You’ve completely finished with all your dating club activities.
It’s wonderful that you no longer have any need to use a dating club. Since you seem to be a high-income earner, you may not have felt it as much, but I imagine you invested quite a substantial amount in these activities.
From now on, you’ll be able to put those funds to use elsewhere, so I can’t help but think that a different world is waiting for you. I hope you continue to thrive in that new world.
If possible, I’d be happy if you could share some updates in a column or somewhere similar.
There have been quite a few times when I read your answers and thought, “That’s exactly right.”
I felt that you had a particularly good way of looking at and thinking about things, and I assumed—perhaps presumptuously—that this was why you had become a high-income earner.
> Suddenly feeling completely satisfied in your heart
I believe this is the most important thing of all. Personally, I think that what we desire, hope for, or seek is essentially limitless.
It’s wonderful that you’ve found a place where you feel settled.
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A Lost Sixty-Something
Congratulations, Rula!
I’ve often been impressed by your answers and always looked forward to reading them. I’d love for you to write a column about what led you to make your announcement, and I hope you’ll continue sharing your insights as an answerer as well.
I’ll be looking forward to it \( ˆoˆ )/
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I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
> I hate to rain on your parade, but my friend Win sometimes says similar things too—and then changes his mind after about three months.
Mac, that’s really funny.
I couldn’t help laughing.
I agree with you completely... lol
I believe that in a dating club, you should feel free to be honest with yourself and your feelings.
I hope you continue to enjoy a wonderful, long-lasting relationship with her.
I look forward to your continued support.
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I’m Seattle, a male member and occasional column writer.
Rura, I’m jealous. I’ll be looking forward to reading about your relationship with her in your column.
I wonder how things will ultimately turn out between the two of you.
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