Tips Sep 23, 2019 13:29

I’m a gold member and a man. I’ve registered my profile.

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I have the following questions: ① When I make an offer, do women ever look at my profile and turn me down? ② So far, I’ve made offers to nine women who were Type B or C. Six of them progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) on the first day, while the others politely turned me down, and that was the end of it. Is this generally how things work?
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I’m Rura, a male UC member and a member of the new salon. Looking at it from a slightly different angle: I personally make my profile fairly detailed. One reason is to give women information they can use to turn me down. So I clearly state things like, “If you’re not [〇〇], please don’t accept my offer.” If a woman doesn’t fit the kind of relationship I’m looking for, then no matter how attractive she is, it won’t be a truly good match. It’s not about women looking at a man’s profile and rejecting him. I use my profile so that women who weren’t a match for me in the first place can feel comfortable turning me down. Just another way of looking at it...
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > When you make an offer, do women ever look at your profile and turn you down? Yes, they do. My sample size is small, so I can’t say how accurate this is statistically, but based on my experience, I’ve made offers to six women since joining, and two of them turned me down. There could be all sorts of reasons, but I assume I simply wasn’t their type. I’m fairly detailed and honest when describing myself and what I’m looking for in a woman, so I guess they decided, “I’ll pass on this man!” All the women are young and beautiful, so I humbly reflect, thinking, “Was I asking for too much?” or “It can’t be helped.” Lately, I’ve been trying again through the club with the attitude of, “Just pick anyone from among these women—I won’t complain…” Since then, I haven’t been turned down once(笑) > I made offers to nine women of Types B and C. On the first day, six of them progressed to an adult relationship (intimate), while the others politely turned me down, and that was the end of it. I agree with what the other respondents have said. That said, in my case, none of the three women I actually met progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) on the first day. There was also one female member who had dinner with me, seemed to be having a good time, and then said goodbye shortly afterward(涙). Well, it can’t be helped!!
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer your questions as well. > ① When I make an offer, is it common for a woman to view my profile and turn me down? I don’t think it happens very often, but if you’ve written something strange in your profile, she may decline because of that. > ② So far, I’ve made offers to nine women with dating types B and C. Six of them progressed to an adult relationship (intimate) on the first day, while the others politely turned me down, and that was the end of it. Is this about what I should expect? Women with dating type B generally only have dinner on the first meeting and decide whether to continue seeing someone after meeting a few more times. So I’m not sure it’s fair to judge the results when you invited them to take things further from the very first day. For women with dating type C, the chances of progressing to a freely negotiated relationship are about 50%. If, say, eight of the nine women were type C and you were able to start relationships with six of them, that’s 75%, which seems quite good.
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I’m a confused man in my 60s. Regarding point ②: If you made offers to three B-type women and six C-type women, then having six adult relationships on the first day would add up, so there shouldn’t be any room for doubt…?
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