If you wanted to cut off contact with a woman after a date,
what would you do?
Block her on LINE, leave her messages on read, not even read them,
block her calls, change your phone number…
Or honestly tell her you want things to end?
Please also tell me why you would choose that approach.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering your question.
Men tend to feel disappointed when a woman suddenly stops replying. Many of them think, “I wish she would at least say a proper goodbye.”
With that in mind, it’s hard to imagine a man simply leaving you on read or blocking you without saying goodbye.
A gentleman would probably let you know properly that it’s over.
That said, there are certainly people who don’t, I’m sure…
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> What do you do when you want to stop communicating with a woman?
In my case, I don’t use LINE, so blocking her, leaving messages on read, or not even opening them doesn’t apply.
> Blocking calls or changing your phone number?
I don’t do those things either.
> Honestly tell her that you want to end contact.
I always explain my reasons and communicate them clearly.
The only times I’ve told someone I wanted to end things were when changes in the dating circumstances or other factors meant the relationship had become significantly different from the terms we originally agreed on.
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I’m a UC male member and a member of the new salon.
In many cases, I’ve simply let things fade by not even marking their messages as read. However, when I’ve been seeing someone for a year or more, I make sure to explain the reason properly and part ways politely.
The reason I often let things fade naturally is that, when ending things with a woman, it’s often not because I particularly dislike her—I may have become interested in someone else, or simply lost interest for no particular reason.
So even when I try to give a proper reason for ending things, in many cases all I can honestly say is that I just “lost interest.”
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