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Sep 18, 2019 11:47
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I’m a female member, but I haven’t mentioned it in my profile.
I’d like to know what kind of impression this gives male members.
I can usually arrange my schedule fairly easily, and the men I’ve met often tell me, “You don’t look like you have children!” Though I’m sure some of that was just lip service.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Basically, it doesn’t affect things, though there is a very slight possibility that it could.
Apparently, the reason is that women with children can’t travel.
I’ve heard that regular dates aren’t a problem at all, but when it comes to traveling together, having children can make that difficult.
I don’t think there are that many men who want to travel together, so it probably has little to no impact.
Still, there do seem to be some men who feel that way.
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I’m Rula, a UC male member and a member of the new salon.
Many men at dating clubs are business owners, so quite a few can make time even during weekday afternoons. Personally, weekday afternoons are actually more convenient for me.
So I don’t think having limited availability is necessarily much of an issue.
The bigger question is whether you should be upfront about being a single mother from the beginning.
Personally, I think it’s better to be open about it. (In fact, I have a first meeting scheduled with a single mother this weekend.)
Some men may feel that they’d rather avoid dating single mothers, but I’d also hate for the relationship to fall apart completely if you kept it secret at first and it came to light later.
Ultimately, I think you should do whatever you feel is right. But whether you’re open about being a single mother or keep it to yourself, I think either choice carries some risk.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member from Seattle.
Since dating clubs aren’t based on marriage, I think it ultimately comes down to your personal appeal.
Having limited availability can be a disadvantage, but you seem to be doing fine, judging from your question. For single mothers, I’d like to see their available times listed.