Thank you as always.

Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer this too. > When someone says she can adjust her schedule to match the other person’s, does that mean he’s making an offer only to her? Not necessarily. Even when she says she can adjust her schedule, or even when specific dates are given, he may be making offers to several women rather than just one. In either case, I don’t think the woman can know whether she’s the only one receiving an offer. > Is it possible to make offers to several women at once and still adjust to each woman’s schedule? Yes, it is. > Is there any way to know whether I’m just one of several women he contacted, whether I was his first choice among them, or whether he had decided on me from the beginning—other than asking him directly? The staff generally won’t answer questions like that, so I think the only way to find out is to ask him directly. That said, when a man says he’ll adjust to the woman’s schedule and the club has several candidates for him, he will usually go on dates with everyone he made an offer to. So I think it’s fair to assume that each woman is his first choice. As an aside, there are men who say they’ll adjust to a woman’s schedule, but when she provides her availability, they say those dates don’t work and ask her to list every other possible date. In that case, it’s possible that she isn’t actually his top choice. More fundamentally, a man who says he’ll adjust his schedule but then can’t is already lying at the offer stage. He’s probably the type who will continue prioritizing himself and lying after they meet as well. Unless you’re confident you can keep such a man in check, it may be wise to stay cautious.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I always work around the other person’s schedule, and I only make an offer to one person at a time. I usually select several candidates, but I start by making an offer to my first choice. If we come to an agreement, I don’t make offers to anyone else. For some reason, I’ve never had to move on to my second choice after selecting multiple candidates. Sometimes I wonder if I should have just focused on one person from the beginning. Of course, I’m on a low income, and there are various other factors as well, so I’ve chosen to focus all my efforts on one person at a time.