Thank you for your continued support.

I’m a female member in my 20s. Since the “You’re Lovely” feature was introduced, I’ve had the opportunity to make several connections through it. Thank you very much. I apologize for troubling you with the following questions and suggestions regarding “You’re Lovely.” I view men’s profiles and use the feature for men who share my hobbies or have a build I’m attracted to. I understand that men can only view their “You’re Lovely” notifications for 30 days, so when someone catches my eye, I’ve been sending it again roughly once a month. However, I’ve started wondering how men perceive women who send “You’re Lovely” repeatedly over a period of one to three months. (From a man’s perspective, would it be something like, “If I were interested, I’d make an offer, so the fact that I haven’t contacted her should say enough… Receiving it repeatedly doesn’t really change anything; she’s simply not my type…”?) Also, men’s current profile pages indicate their preferred relationship type. For example, whether they prefer a platonic relationship or a long-term arrangement could serve as a useful guide for women as well. However, lately I’ve noticed that many men check every option, which made me wonder whether it would prevent both sides from worrying unnecessarily if we could understand a man’s genuine preferences. (The following is not a question, but simply my personal opinion…!) It may come across as somewhat crude, like publicly revealing one’s preferences, but I thought it might be helpful if men could select options such as: ・Looking for relationship type ○ or higher ・Large breasts / small breasts ・Short / tall ・Under 20 / 30 or older ・Prefers daytime / nighttime dates ・Welcomes office workers / Looking for a special encounter That way, women could tell at a glance, “Oh, I’m not what he’s looking for…” and approach a more suitable selection of men. (I understand that men apparently have search functions and so on, so I apologize that this is merely a personal opinion from a woman’s perspective…) Some men who make their profiles public may prefer to choose from among the women who have sent them a “You’re Lovely.” Also, for example, if a man displays “Relationship type C or higher” and “Short,” but receives an approach from a tall woman with relationship type A, it could serve as a way to tell whether she has actually read his profile: “Did she really read it…?” I’m sorry for writing at such length, but I thought everyone might be able to enjoy more fulfilling relationships if we could create wonderful matches with fewer mismatches. I’m posting this with some hesitation, in the hope of meeting some wonderful gentlemen.