I’m a male member. After reading the stories about unpleasant dates with female members, I was a little surprised that things like this actually happen.

I’m Saito, the column writer ♪ Like Nonta, I try to include surveys and reports whenever possible. When I attend an event, I share my impressions and what everyone talked about. The staff sometimes teach me things like, “Oh? I didn’t know that,” or “I’ve never heard him say or do anything like that,” as well as how he treats other male members differently.

Maezawa from Shachoshitsu here. > If I’m thinking of making an offer to a female member, can I contact the club to find out whether she has had any issues like that? If you contact us, we can let you know. However, if she has no dating history with the club (for example, if it would be her first date), if the man hasn’t submitted a survey, or if he submitted one but didn’t give us permission to confirm it with the woman, then the club won’t have any information. In those cases, we can only tell you that there don’t appear to be any particular issues. By the way, it seems people naturally tend to focus on the bad cases—which is understandable—but most of the women are actually very nice. Apparently, when a man meets a really great woman, it’s common for him not to submit a survey. (笑) He doesn’t want other men to know about her.