I have two papas (male supporters) I see once or twice a month for an adult relationship, as well as a boyfriend. Sometimes dates with all three end up back-to-back, and to be honest, I find myself thinking, “I just did that yesterday, so I’m not really feeling it or fully into it…”

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ You can get away with pretending about 90% of the time. That’s something I really feel whenever I have roundtable discussions with women. Over the last three-day weekend, I met with 11 women, and I think the men feel the same way. The 12th woman was a celebrity who canceled at the last minute, and I secretly felt relieved. If they don’t like the other person, the relationship will end. If the relationship hasn’t ended, I think it’s safe to assume the man is satisfied.

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. > Also, can men tell when a woman is faking it? Wouldn’t it depend on how good she is at acting? If she’s good, they won’t notice. If she’s bad, they will. You can tell whether she’s really into it or not. But you might think, “Maybe she’s just tired today,” or “Maybe it’s just a coincidence,” or “Maybe she was with someone else earlier today.” You can imagine all sorts of things, but they’re still only guesses. Compatibility when it comes to intimacy is important too, so it depends on the man. But if he can feel kindness and consideration from you as a person, I don’t think he’ll end things that easily. That said, if it happens every time, I do feel there could be some risk. You could try managing your rotation better, or find ways to change things up for yourself so you can still enjoy it even when the intervals are short.