I understand that the club does not get involved in dates after the second one, but would it be possible to note on a woman’s profile when she has committed an exceptionally serious cancellation?
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We had arranged to meet in the hotel lobby that evening. I also confirmed the time with her by email that afternoon, and she said the time worked for her.
About an hour before we were due to meet, she emailed to say that she would be about 30 minutes late. I replied that I understood and told her I would check into the room first and wait there, asking her to email me when she arrived at the lobby.
After that, I never heard from her again. She didn’t reply when I emailed to ask what was going on, and her phone was turned off, so I couldn’t reach her. In the end, I waited in the hotel room for two and a half hours, checked out, and went home.
・・・・If this had been a private relationship, I suppose this sort of thing might happen. I also imagine that, among the many papas she has, I was simply a papa she didn’t care about and so she treated me carelessly. Even so, by any reasonable standard, this was an extremely inconsiderate cancellation.
I’m asking whether it might be possible to add a note to her profile about what happened, so that as few people as possible are subjected to a similar experience.
Well, I suppose I should just forget this unpleasant experience and make an offer to the next woman.
I’m BB7, a male member in my late 40s.
Putting aside the first meeting, I feel that both people’s true personalities start to show from the second meeting onward. So personally, I often find myself more interested in reading reviews from the second meeting onward than the initial reviews. I’d really appreciate it if people could specify whether their feedback is about a first date, second date, and so on in the customer reviews.
Women like the one you encountered are a negative for both the club and other men, so I’d like you to write about it in the review immediately and reduce the number of stars.
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President Maezawa from Shachōshitsu here as well.
> Would it be possible to add a note indicating that something like that happened?
Whether or not to include it is up to the club.
You can still submit feedback after a second date, so the important thing is to submit your feedback first and indicate that it’s okay for the club to confirm the details with the woman.
The basic policy is to hear both sides. If you don’t give permission to contact her, they can’t make a judgment based solely on one person’s account, so the feedback will have limited value.
After hearing both sides, the club may decide that the information should be recorded, or they may decide that it isn’t necessary after hearing the woman’s explanation.
By the way, was this your second date with her?
If it was, I do think her behavior was pretty terrible.
But if you had already met her several times, I can’t help wondering whether something happened—perhaps she was involved in a traffic accident or collapsed.
Of course, even if it was only the second date, something like a traffic accident is still possible…
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Male member Seattle here.
That’s awful. You must have had a really difficult time.
Even if it was your second meeting, please be sure to leave feedback about it for reference.
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