I’m BB7, a male member in my late 40s.
To be honest, I’m tired of sex itself. When I was younger, simply having sex was enough, and I could do it even with women I wasn’t particularly attracted to. Now, though, that alone gets boring after meeting just once or twice, and it’s simply exhausting.
So please don’t make the simplistic assumption that men, like young, horny guys, are satisfied as long as they can have sex, or that making them climax is all it takes. I’d like you to learn various techniques for pleasing men as well. On top of that physical satisfaction, it would be wonderful if you could also provide some emotional fulfillment—saying you like us, even if it’s just for show, for example.
I don’t know exactly what the questioner means by being passive, but I think men get bored with the same routine. Please try different things, such as hugging him proactively, acting affectionate, or initiating things yourself. For most men, seeing a woman who was initially passive become more proactive is actually very pleasing.
For reference, here are some women I never wanted to have sex with again:
- Just lay there like a dead fish and kept their eyes open the whole time
- Bad breath, a foul odor down there, too loose, or visible armpit hair
- Tried far too hard to make me climax quickly with hand stimulation
- “I don’t like kissing!” “Don’t touch me too much!” “No oral!” “Don’t lick me!”
- Desperately restrained themselves from showing pleasure, or made the man stop so they wouldn’t lose control
- Once it was over, there was no mood or afterglow whatsoever—they immediately showered, got dressed, came back out, and clearly wanted to leave as soon as possible
Older men aren’t monkeys with money.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer this one too.
> From a man’s perspective, would you be happy if a woman who’s usually passive made an effort?
I think I’d be happy if she made an effort.
That said, I’m not sure it’s a good idea to force yourself.
If it’s a man you’ve already met several times, I think it would be fine to ask him directly.
Also, something like what’s shown at the link below might be effective:
ttps://www.lovecosmetic.jp/shc/chitsutraining/
