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Sep 4, 2019 10:43
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I’m a female member registered as Relationship Type B.
Although I’m in my forties and haven’t received many offers, I’ve been approached several times, and when I feel someone is wonderful, I do continue seeing him beyond dinner. It seems the club also regards me as a valued member. (←A gentleman told me this. He didn’t mention my class or number of stars. That isn’t against the rules, is it?)
So, from the perspective of members like me, proposals such as measures to ease the problem of “type fraud” are extremely troublesome. Of course, I don’t think the club staff would simply take such a proposal at face value.
Therefore, when something is labeled “type fraud,” shouldn’t it come down to the responsibility of the staff member who conducted the interview and the gentleman who made the offer, as well as a matter of luck? Even women who answer, “I’m prepared for that,” during their interview become unbelievably nervous when meeting, for the first time, a gentleman whose face they haven’t even seen. If she declines an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting onward, isn’t the only solution to develop the ability to tell whether it’s because she was nervous or because she never intended to go that far in the first place? Besides, don’t people who enjoy the give-and-take choose Type B in the first place?
I’m sorry this isn’t in question format. After reading the post, I couldn’t stay silent and ended up writing this. I’m considering applying to become an answerer.
3 answers
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a column writer.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but basically, I agree with the questioner and “Confused in His 60s.” To Joe, Universe Club is a place to improve yourself as a man and enjoy the give-and-take. And I believe that, for male members, being prepared means not making a big fuss even if you fall victim to a dating-type scam. Of course, this is just my personal opinion, and I can’t claim to always live up to it myself. Still, when things don’t go as hoped, I’d like to limit myself to lamenting my own lack of discernment.
As for the proposed easing measure, Joe is opposed to that as well. The reason is simple: even if it’s a rule that might favor men, I don’t like adding more rules in the first place. Besides, if such a measure were introduced, I seriously doubt whether the staff would be able to handle it.
迷わない70代
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m in my 60s and feeling a little lost.
There are plenty of men who say women “aren’t prepared to make the necessary commitment,” yet I rarely see anyone harshly telling men that they “aren’t prepared”…
Isn’t that exactly the problem? …lol
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
This is Maezawa from the CEO’s office answering.
> Isn’t it basically the people who enjoy playing games who choose option B?
Exactly.
> I couldn’t resist posting this. I’m considering applying to become a respondent.
Please do apply to become a respondent.
There aren’t many answers from women, so I hope as many people as possible will contribute their perspectives.
You can apply to become a respondent here: (lol)
https://universe-club.jp/help/apply/