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Some women in category B are the type who keep implying they’ll go through with it but never do, so it’s all rather ambiguous.
I also know plenty of women in B who are proactive.
To be honest, I agree with Seattle-san’s opinion.
If there’s no possibility after the first dinner, I’d like them to say so—or at least give me some kind of clear answer.
Maezawa from the executive office here. I’ll answer as well.
> Do most male members believe that if a woman classified as Dating Type B doesn’t agree to an adult relationship (intimacy) on the second date, she should be suspected of type fraud?
I think you can generally tell after having dinner on the first meeting whether you click with the man.
So if you feel that things probably won’t work out with him, it’s normal to decline the second date altogether. No one considers that fraud; they simply assume you didn’t click. If a man thinks that’s fraud, then his understanding is mistaken.
However, if you agree to a second date, have dinner, and then turn him down afterward, he may start to suspect that you’re committing type fraud.
That said, when it’s only the second date, I think most club staff would not consider it fraud. So you don’t need to worry. Depending on what was said during the date, though, a man may claim that you committed fraud because of something the woman said. Even then, the club will usually confirm the details with the woman as well, so it’s unlikely to be considered fraud simply because you declined after the second date.
The issue is the third date. If you turn him down at that point, it will be considered dating-type fraud.
> Ideally, I’d like things to progress at about the same pace as a normal romantic relationship—at least meeting two or three times and getting to know each other first.
That’s exactly what Dating Type B means. It’s not really leaning one way or the other; I’d say it’s a genuine Type B. You should feel confident going on dates.
The man may say various things, but that’s only because he wants to move to an adult relationship (intimacy) quickly. I don’t think your dating type is wrong. Taking the time to properly assess a man before entering an adult relationship is important so that you don’t regret it later, so it’s perfectly fine to take that time without worrying.
Men who don’t like that can simply make offers to women classified as Dating Type C.
