What could she say to make you feel good about paying the allowance if you forgot to pay before parting ways?

I’m Joe, a columnist. I’ll answer on the assumption that “allowance” means transportation expenses. In that case, it’s best to be direct. I understand that it may feel awkward to bring up, but being clear is also in the male member’s best interest. After all, if he forgets to give you your transportation money, he could potentially be asked to leave the club. Please help save him from that risk. And if he reacts unpleasantly, you probably wouldn’t want to be involved with someone like that anyway. It can also serve as a good litmus test.

Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering as well. As for the allowance… If it’s transportation expenses, that’s part of the club’s rules, so I think it’s easy to ask for whatever amount is appropriate. But when it comes to the allowance itself, I think it’s best to ask in a way that sounds genuinely apologetic. That may make the man think, “She’s being so cute and considerate, even in the way she asks,” which could work in your favor. Update: “I thought that approach might have the opposite effect, so even though others have already answered, I wanted to post a differing opinion.” So it had the opposite effect for some people. Thank you for sharing that—it’s helpful. Our opinions are completely different, but everyone is different, and it’s only natural for people to have different views. So please don’t hesitate to keep sharing your answers.

I’m a male member from Seattle. Of course he should pay. I can’t understand how anyone could forget something so important at the end. Just say, “Could I have my allowance, please?” That should be fine.