Maezawa from the president’s office here.
> Please make an even greater effort to remind men not to violate the rules…
I’d certainly like to strengthen those reminders, but when I previously asked the staff at one of our branches, they politely declined, saying they didn’t like including information about the rules in their replies to offers.
I assume they don’t want to bring up the rules and dampen the mood when someone has just received an offer and is looking forward to the date.
That said, I think some men may simply forget the rules over the years. Others may assume that it’s fine because they’ve violated them before without getting caught.
For that reason, I do feel that reminders when an offer is made—or regular announcements—are necessary. However, people who follow the rules properly may not appreciate having extra text added to every message.
It’s difficult to find a solution when the majority of people who follow the rules end up inconvenienced because of the few who don’t. Still, I don’t think we can just leave things as they are, so if anything seems wrong or causes you trouble, I encourage you to speak up.
The best option is the post-date survey, so please make use of it.
In the survey, I think it would be helpful to write, “Even after I refused repeatedly, he kept pressuring me to leave the club.”
However, agreeing to let us verify the facts takes courage. Since we would then contact the man, he might decide that he no longer wants to continue seeing that woman. Taking that into consideration, most people end up selecting “No” when asked whether we may verify the facts.
As a result, to prevent false accusations, the club is unable to take any action—which is the frustrating part.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> Being pressured by a man to leave the club
I agree with Nonta’s opinion as well.
I don’t think there are that many male members who pressure women to leave the club.
You must be very attractive. I’d love to meet you at least once, if possible (lol).
I think the best thing to do would be to report it to the club in the post-date survey.
