Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer this one too.
I think he probably says that because when he asks you out, you’re often unavailable, so there aren’t many opportunities for you to meet.
So when he asks, “You’re seeing other papas or a boyfriend too, right?” I don’t think it necessarily has much to do with whether you actually have another papa. It’s probably more a comment about how rarely you’re available to meet.
As for how to get him to trust you, if you’re comfortable showing it to him, why not show him your schedule?
If you don’t have an actual schedule written out, you could explain all your plans in detail—not exactly like a presentation, but something along the lines of, “I have this planned on Monday, and this on Tuesday.” That may help him understand that you aren’t seeing another papa.
Also, by explaining your schedule, you might find that a man who initially assumed you couldn’t meet because you only had an hour free will say, “Even an hour is fine—I still want to see you.” (Though normally, he’d probably prefer to spend at least two hours together.)
With that in mind, even if it feels like a hassle, it might be worth explaining your recent schedule in detail.
That said, why are you unavailable on both Saturdays and Sundays? If someone hears that you’re busy every day of the week, they’ll naturally assume you have a boyfriend or another papa.
For example, if you have a part-time job, you could simply be honest and say so. He might even offer to cover your part-time wages and say, “Then let’s meet.”
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
You’re clearly being doted on by the man you’re currently seeing. (He may be a little jealous.)
> Even when I deny it, he keeps saying it over and over.
Actually, I had assumed that you liked him too and that you’d been seeing him repeatedly.
As for:
> What can I say to convince him that I’m not seeing anyone else?
1. Rather than getting frustrated and thinking, “This is exhausting,” I think all you can do is casually repeat, “I’m not seeing anyone else!”
2. According to something I once read about the “mindset of a mistress,” I suppose you need to become a convenient woman for him. It may be necessary to show it through your actions, not just your words.
Once a relationship begins, both men and women have to put up with one thing after another. Try to enjoy the sacrifices（笑）
When those enjoyable sacrifices reach their limit, ending the relationship is also an option.
I’m sure there are many other male members who would suit you—men who can more than hold their own against the man you’re currently seeing.
