When I read anonymous forums, I often see posts like, “I offer women over a certain age nothing. If they want money, I won’t continue seeing them.”
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It’s one thing if the woman herself says she doesn’t need any money, but what do you think about men who sign up assuming from the start that it will be free?
I didn’t take everything written on anonymous forums at face value, since people write all sorts of things—true or not. But the other day, I ended up meeting someone who took me to a hotel for our first meeting and only gave me transportation money. He was quite drunk, so I couldn’t say anything at the time, but I reported it to the club afterward.
Men do ask me, “Would it be okay to go to a hotel?” But in all the people I’ve met so far, not a single one has asked, “Would ○10,000 be okay?”
I often see stories in the Q&A section about people negotiating the terms over dinner and then not being a good match, but no one has ever even tried to negotiate with me.
I suppose that once things are over, if he says, “I never said from the beginning that I would give you any money,” then technically he has a point. What should I do?
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I often see posts like, “I offer women over [age] a free arrangement. If they want an allowance, I won’t continue seeing them.”
Do you really see posts like that that often?
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> When I look at anonymous message boards, I often see posts like, “I offer women above a certain age an unpaid arrangement. If they want money, I won’t continue seeing them.”
This is an anonymous Q&A box, so you’re referring to some message board, correct?
In the first place, I don’t recall seeing posts like that on anonymous message boards. Even if I simply overlooked them, I don’t think you would come across them that often.
That sort of thing may happen on ordinary message boards, which is why people who dislike that and want peace of mind come to register with Universe Club.
Please enjoy safe, worry-free dates through Universe, where you don’t have to worry about such things.
> What should I do?
At the interview, we’re supposed to explain that you should discuss the allowance clearly in advance, and only proceed with dating once you’re satisfied with the terms.
Are you really a female member?
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I’m a male member of UC and a member of the new salon location.
Are you talking about something that happened through Universe Club?
I don’t think a situation like that would normally occur at the club.
You mentioned an “anonymous message board” in your question, but as far as I know, Universe Club doesn’t have a system like that…
I’m wondering if you might be asking about something that happened on a papa-katsu site or elsewhere.
However, if this did happen through Universe Club, I recommend contacting the club right away.
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I’m Seattle, a male member.
If you’re not okay with going to a hotel without any allowance, make sure to negotiate it before going in. Once you’re in the room, ask to receive it upfront.
Personally, I can’t believe a guy paying tens of thousands of yen wouldn’t bring it up himself. On dating apps, maybe—but when financial support is part of the arrangement, I feel more at ease because it puts me in the stronger position. I can choose the dates more easily, and I’m free to end things.
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