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Aug 23, 2019 08:14
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
We get together for group dinners and things like that.
It only takes one session, and there’s plenty of information sharing, so it benefits everyone.
As one example, I’ve posted it as “Saito-san da zo ♪”s December 2018 roundtable discussion.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer too.
Some people say things like that, whether they’re men or women, while others don’t.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Seattle, a male member.
I currently have three ongoing arrangements, and I’ve been completely honest with the second and third people about it. That feels more natural to me. Lately, I’ve started to really like the third person, and I’m wondering whether I should end things with the first.
I give my full support to each person while we’re together, so two or three is my limit.
Other
I’m Rura, a male UC member and a member of the new salon.
In my case, the women I see probably don’t know that I’m also seeing other women. They don’t seem to be bothered by it either.
It’s not because our relationships are emotionally detached. I think they have no complaints because I’m genuinely sincere about things like how often we meet, the allowance, our everyday messages, and showing consideration.
Incidentally, I’m completely satisfied with the women I’m currently seeing, but I do sometimes make offers to new women. I simply enjoy meeting new people and having new conversations, and it also reminds me how wonderful the women I’m currently seeing really are.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> Don’t the women they’re seeing regularly say anything about it? Or do they simply not know?
Sometimes they may not say anything, and sometimes they may not know.
If both the male and female members feel, “This person is enough for me,” I don’t think they’ll make or accept any new offers.
But if either or both of them feel, “This isn’t enough,” they may start making or accepting new offers.
What makes them feel it’s “not enough” could be the way the relationship is handled, appearance, personality, money, or something else.
> Don’t they get jealous, get dumped, or get told not to see other women?
I’m sure some people are told those things.
I see relationships through a dating club as involving all of that. Both people are on equal footing, and the relationship should be based on mutual understanding and agreement about what kind of arrangement they want.