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Aug 20, 2019 10:09
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(It may be more accurate to call it a long-distance date related to his work rather than a trip…)
Even though we still have a lot to learn about each other, I’m wondering whether he really expects to spend that much time together and enjoy it.
Of course, since it would still count as just one date, I’m not particularly worried about things like not receiving an allowance commensurate with the time involved, which often come up on this Q&A site. He says he’ll arrange and cover everything, so if anything, I’m thinking, “Is it really okay to be spoiled this much?”
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
> What do you think is going through a man’s mind when he invites you on a trip right after meeting you for the first time?
After meeting her for the first time, he probably observed her conversation, mannerisms, and personality and thought, “I’d like to travel somewhere far away with this person.”
I think his life experience led him to feel that this particular woman would be someone he could trust.
Of course, even someone with plenty of life experience may go on a trip and think, “Huh? This isn’t quite what I expected.”
But I think men tend to feel that, if that happens, it is what it is.
They trust their instincts and move forward.
And sometimes, the fact that there are still so many things you don’t know about each other is what makes it exciting.
Other
I’m Saito♪, a column writer.
I sometimes meet other male members as well, and there are all kinds of men out there.
The more someone talks a good game at first, the more likely he is to be strangely picky about minor details. There are also plenty of people who can do things like that without giving any real thought to the deeper issues.
At a first meeting, I think it’s only natural for both sides to put on a good front. Until you get comfortable with each other and establish your dating style, it may be best to go with the flow, treating those things as just background noise.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member based in Seattle.
He must be a male member looking for someone to travel with.
Since he only invites women he feels he can trust on trips, she must have made a great impression—someone female members would feel comfortable inviting even after meeting her for the first time.