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Aug 15, 2019 19:41
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I’d like to ask a question about the “Hobbies” section, and I apologize if this is off-topic.
This may be a little personal, but my hobby is watching professional wrestling.
If I’m fortunate enough to meet someone, and if he would like that as well, my ideal would be to build a relationship like that of friends or fellow enthusiasts who can enjoy talking about things we have in common.
I spend my days looking for gentlemen who share my interests among those who have made their profiles public, and quietly clicking “Sounds wonderful” on their profiles. However, I rarely find anyone with whom I can share my hobbies and interests—not just professional wrestling—so I’ve been wondering whether there might be a way to communicate information about my interests to men more specifically than simply my appearance and other profile details. (Perhaps through keyword searches or something similar?)
I feel that even one small thing in common could lead to a meaningful connection.
(I feel embarrassed saying this because it’s just my personal preference, but I don’t find information such as a gentleman’s occupation or annual income particularly appealing. If someone is going to take the time to meet me, I would be happy if it could be a fun encounter where we share at least one common interest.) That is why I wanted to ask.
I’m sorry that this became somewhat rambling, but would it be possible to consult the club I’m registered with and ask them to introduce or recommend me to someone with similar hobbies?
Among all the possibilities for meeting people, if I happen to form a connection with someone, I would like to cherish that one person.
I apologize for the disorganized message…
4 answers
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Someone I know joined Universe this year, and he’s an absolutely huge pro wrestling fan.
If you’re with the Tokyo branch (Kanto area), please get in touch. I’ll contact him and ask him to consider making you an offer.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
President Maezawa from the club office here, answering as well.
> These days, I look through the profiles of men who have made theirs public, search for people who share my interests, and quietly click “Sounds great” on their profiles.
If you’ve found someone who shares your hobby, why not ask the staff at your registered branch something like:
“I enjoy watching professional wrestling, so I clicked ‘Sounds great’ on his profile. Would it be possible for you to let him know that?”
There’s no guarantee that he’ll make you an offer, but rather than wondering why you clicked “Sounds great,” he may be more inclined to want to meet you if he knows the reason.
You could also write something in the comment section that women can fill in themselves, such as:
“I enjoy watching professional wrestling, so I’d be happy to receive an offer from someone who shares this hobby.”
> Would it be possible to consult the club and have them promote me to men with similar interests?
I imagine there aren’t many men who have told the club that they enjoy watching professional wrestling, so it may be difficult for the staff to promote you unless a particular man comes to mind.
That said, they may happen to know someone like that, so I think it’s worth asking. If a staff member can think of a suitable man, they may be able to promote you to him.
Other
I’m Rura, a UC male member and a member of the new salon.
I also think sharing the same interests is an important factor in making a good connection.
I’d be happy if it became possible to search by “interests.”
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
That’s a good question.
● I don’t know what kind of information the club includes in its introductions of male members, but perhaps they might add a section for hobbies and interests?
● I, too, hope to meet someone I share even a few common interests with, so we can enjoy our time together.
● More male members may start including niche hobbies and interests in their profile information.