I was wondering about something, so could someone from the staff please tell me?
When men in their 70s or older register as members, do you check whether they have dementia, or whether they have savings if their only income is a pension?
I was recently set up with a man in his 70s or older who was clearly confused, and he had such a strong odor—as if he hadn’t bathed in days—that I couldn’t even eat.
He didn’t seem to have any money either, and his statements kept changing. From the moment we met, he loudly went on and on about war, religion, and other things I can’t write here—such as “T●n has savings in Switzerland” and the atomic bomb—until everyone in the café, not just the people sitting next to us, was staring at us. It was extremely uncomfortable.
When I finally said, “That kind of topic is a bit much,” he got angry and said, “You didn’t turn me down either!”
That was when I first learned that women have the right to decline a setup.
He had said that the woman he met last time was ugly and looked different from her photo, so maybe he was still lucid in some respects. But he couldn’t even ride the train, and when I declined an adult relationship (intimate), he became furious and offered an absurdly low amount. I wonder whether he was pretending to be confused—if so, that’s malicious.
From now on, I’ll decline even if I’m offered an arrangement with someone in his 70s or older, but I’d like to know whether you conduct any special screening.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Please be sure to give us proper feedback about this. Our staff need to meet him in person and check whether he may be cognitively impaired.
If, even after meeting him, our staff feel that he seems somewhat impaired, we will naturally suspend his membership.
That said, I’ve heard that in the early stages of dementia, people are still lucid much of the time. So if he behaves normally when our staff meet him, we may determine that he’s fine. Even so, the feedback will accumulate, and if we receive similar reports in the future, the likelihood of suspending his membership will increase.
If he is doing these things despite not having dementia, then his behavior is not gentlemanly, and he may be forcibly removed from the service.
> When men in their 70s or older register as members, do you check whether they have dementia or, if they only receive a pension, whether they have savings?
When a man joins, our staff meet him in person and assess him while having a conversation. If nothing seems unusual during that conversation, we determine that he does not have dementia. If his words or behavior seem strange at that stage, we decline his application.
Apart from that, we may ask verbally about his income and assets, but we do not verify the information.
> I only recently learned that women have the right to decline a date setup.
I may not have explained this clearly, but when we contact you with an offer, you can simply decline by saying, “I’ll pass this time.”
We include a brief introduction to the man, so it’s fine to say that you’re not comfortable with someone in that profession, or that you’re not comfortable with someone of that age. You can also give any other reason.
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I’m not staff—I’m Seattle, a male member.
This is awful. Did she end up with a Kishu Don Juan? He’s such an old nuisance that it might be better if he became a Buddha already.
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