My graduation is approaching. What was the best thing about joining a dating club?
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For me, it was having my arrogance as a “company president” so effortlessly shattered by a young woman.
That, I think, was the true appeal of these relationships.
When you become someone with far too much money, the people around you who dare to oppose you gradually disappear.
They stop associating with you.
Or rather, they no longer need to, because they can get by without it.
The only person who still goes against me is my wife, lol.
When I finally noticed, I was—as is so often the case, and I was no exception—nothing more than the “emperor with no clothes.”
Then, in the midst of that everyday life, a young woman appeared who mercilessly judged and laughed at me for the naked man I really was.
I never cut anyone off myself, no matter who they were (though some relationships did naturally fade away).
“Cutting someone off” is easy, and it can protect your own petty pride (or so you think), but it also means losing the most precious flavor these relationships can bring.
I often savored the bitterness of being cut off, sitting at a bar with a dark look on my face.
As a man, I am deeply grateful to all those young women who repeatedly shattered my arrogance and constantly brought me back to where I began.
Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
It’s great to hear that the dating club had other advantages too. If that’s the case, it also increases the value of Universe, which makes us very happy.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I decided to post this because I came across an article that expressed similar thoughts.
“Amid that kind of everyday life, a young woman appears—someone who mercilessly appraises and laughs at me for who I am beneath the surface. I’ve never been the one to cut things off, no matter who the other person was (though some relationships did naturally fade away). Cutting someone off is easy, and it can even make you feel like you’re protecting your own petty pride (though that’s just an illusion). But doing so means losing the most precious flavor that a relationship can bring. I often tasted the bitterness of being cut off while sitting at a bar, my face dark with sorrow.”
Relationships through a dating club are surprisingly profound. Even though money is involved, I approach them while constantly questioning myself, so that I won’t have any regrets about the way I live my life.
That said, I’ve never been the one to “cut off” a relationship. I have been cut off, though.
Everyone I’ve met so far has been a good person—including interesting people and those who made me think, “That’s one way of looking at it.” I’m enjoying myself while learning how to navigate relationships with others.
Perhaps that’s what matters most.
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I’m Rula, a male member of UC and the new salon.
The best thing about joining a dating club?
For me, it’s becoming healthier.
At a dating club, women have the right to say no. I personally don’t want a relationship where a woman is thinking, “I don’t really want to, but I’ll put up with it and spend time with you.” Ideally, I want to continue seeing someone because I genuinely think, “She’s the one I want.”
That made me realize that looking clean and well-groomed is important too—and that it’s hard to give off that impression when you’re overweight.
So I spent about six months working on my fitness, and my body shape changed quite a lot. Of course, it’s not like every date is a guaranteed win, and even now, there are times when I lose touch with women I really liked.
Still, at least my health has improved. My high cholesterol and metabolic syndrome are gone, and I’m enjoying my days feeling great. At my annual checkups, my doctor praised me quite a bit too♪
For men, maybe the greatest motivation really is the desire to be popular with women! (笑)
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
I’ve been able to help resolve problems troubling women I cared about, whether it was student loans or other debts.
I once supported someone until she became a nurse. If I can help someone make a fresh start, then I don’t think the little sums I’ve saved up over the years were wasted.
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