I’ve heard that relationship clubs are safer, so I wanted to ask a question.
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Because I’m often in the public eye through my career and life’s work, I have a rather flashy appearance.
I have piercings, and I also have two small tattoos.
That said, I’m sincere in my interactions, and I’ve always been very disciplined and dedicated in my work, regardless of my appearance.
I imagine that what people look for in a setting like this may be almost the complete opposite of how I look. Even if I receive fewer matches, is it possible that someone might see my profile, take an interest in my personality, and reach out to me?
Thank you in advance.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
> Because I tend to stand out, my appearance is quite flashy.
Some men do prefer women with a flashy look. Everyone has different tastes.
> I feel that what’s sought in places like this is probably the complete opposite of my appearance, though.
Who knows? If we’re talking about the majority, that may be the general tendency, but I’ve never met anyone who unanimously preferred one particular type of woman.
If such a person existed, her number of dates should eventually equal the number of men at the branch. But there isn’t a woman in Tokyo who has dated 1,000 men.
When you think about it that way, people’s preferences are generally quite varied, so I think you can have more confidence.
That said, tattoos are a negative point. Some men may like your appearance but decide not to pursue things because you have a tattoo.
Even so, if it’s just a small, discreet tattoo, their preference for your appearance will usually outweigh that. It may be a drawback, but I don’t think it will have much effect on the number of offers you receive.
I can’t say for sure without seeing you in person, but if your only concern is that you look flashy, you really don’t need to worry. If your appearance is to a man’s taste, you’ll receive offers, and if your personality is good, it may develop into a long-term arrangement.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> I’ve always approached both sincere interactions that go beyond appearances and my work with a disciplined attitude.
> Is it possible for women who have viewed my profile or become interested in my personality to reach out to me?
As for the above: appearance is very important, but I think sincerity can make up for a lot.
At this dating club, I’m one of the lower-income, less affluent male members.
So my approach to dating is very straightforward: once I decide, “This is the woman for me,” I don’t make unreasonable demands and focus solely on that one person.
When making offers, I pay more attention to the staff’s comments than to appearance.
I haven’t made many offers so far, but I’ve been doing reasonably well without any major problems.
Above all, the most important thing is whether she’s willing to engage with me sincerely and openly.
I’m sure I’m not the only male member who feels that way—and the staff have a pretty good eye for people too（笑）
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