Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Male members tend to focus on newly registered women. In other words, they’ve already looked through almost all of the existing female members.
So anyone among the existing members they’re interested in has usually already received an offer. After that, they mainly focus on—and make offers to—newly registered women.
When a woman first joins, even veteran members will look at her profile and may send her an offer. But after that, most of the men who are likely to make her an offer have already done so.
Once that initial cycle is over, newly registered men will mainly be the ones looking through all the female members.
For that reason, I think most offers will generally come from new male members.
Of course, veteran members sometimes go back and review women they’ve saved as favorites and think, “Maybe I’ll make her an offer after all.” So offers from veteran male members do happen, but they seem to be relatively rare.
> Personally, I’d prefer to accept offers only from men who have had experience being set up with various women.
That’s understandable. With men who are used to the process, conversation tends to flow more smoothly. And since they haven’t been forcibly removed from the club, there’s also some reassurance that they’re probably not particularly problematic.
If that’s what you prefer, you could tell the club staff that you only want to accept offers from men who have been on at least three dates through the club. Of course, that would reduce the number of offers you receive, so I can’t say whether it would be better or worse overall.
Another option would be to change your perspective and enjoy dating new male members while showing them the ropes.
You might even be able to go on dates at places you personally prefer.
Men are often unsure at first about where to meet or what kind of restaurant to take a woman to. If you tell them things like, “I’d be happy if you took me somewhere like this,” or “I’d prefer to meet at a place like this,” I think newly registered men would appreciate the guidance.
Being escorted on a date by a man is probably more enjoyable, but it may also be worth trying to enjoy things from a different perspective.
I’m a male member, Seattle.
Naturally, the more active men will probably approach women who are new to the site first.
Once some time has passed, you probably won’t get the same attention you did as a newcomer. I’d recommend steadily updating your messages and likes while showing off different sides of yourself.
