Thank you for your continued support. I’m a woman.

I have a question about bra cup sizes. I feel there’s quite a gap between a woman’s actual cup size and the cup size men imagine. Since the cup size is based on the difference between the underbust and bust measurements, some women with a slim underbust may be a D cup even if their breasts don’t look particularly large, right? So I was wondering: should I list my bust size based on how it looks from a “man’s perspective” (sorry for generalizing) or my actual cup size? Of course, since it wouldn’t be a lie, I think I should list my actual cup size on my profile, but I’d still feel a little hurt if, when meeting the man, he thought, “This isn’t what I expected...” I’m sorry for asking such a long and silly question. It’s just been on my mind a little.