Maezawa from the President’s Office will give you a straight answer.
I think she decided that continuing to see you after dinner wasn’t going to work. In other words, you just weren’t compatible.
But there’s no way she could tell you that directly. (Though honestly, I wish she would.)
For example:
Maybe you smelled bad (which is difficult to notice yourself),
your clothes were wrinkled (women pay close attention to things like this, even if you think it’s normal),
you showed up wearing something strange (we’ve even heard reports of men arriving in tracksuits. It’s best to assume that tracksuits look good on virtually no one),
or you didn’t have a clean, well-groomed appearance (this is also hard to notice about yourself...).
Some people are turned down because of their appearance, while others are rejected for reasons such as:
being boring to talk to, constantly bragging, badmouthing other women, treating staff rudely or acting superior, talking down to her, lecturing her, offering too little allowance, or trying to haggle.
Of course, maybe you simply weren’t compatible this time.
Still, it’s worth taking a good look at yourself and considering whether any of the factors mentioned above might apply to you.
Most of the women you meet through a dating club are ordinary women. Just as you would when pursuing any other woman, you need to be considerate and think about what would make her happy.
If you put yourself in her shoes and act accordingly, your chances of success should improve.
There’s no point dwelling on it forever. In the end, you’re better off enjoying a date with someone new.
