Tips Jul 14, 2019 16:04

I’m a female member.

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How often do you all message or email after starting an arrangement? I assume many of you have families or busy jobs, so I try to keep messages from my side to a minimum. However, I worry that if we only contact each other about scheduling, he might think I’m only reaching out because I want money. Also, what kind of messages from a woman would make you men happy to receive?
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Maezawa here with an answer. > What kind of messages would make men happy to receive? Basically, I think it’s best to reply soon after the man contacts you. If he’s only messaging you about scheduling, simply replying to that should be enough. If he talks about other things as well, just respond as those messages come in. That said, some men may send dozens of messages a day, which can be overwhelming. So I think replying promptly—but only within a range that doesn’t become stressful for you—is best. In general, I think replying to the man is more than enough, so there’s probably no real need for the woman to go out of her way to initiate contact. That said, messages like: “Hey, listen—something like this happened to me!” might make him happy. Also, if a man hasn’t contacted you at all, I think it’s perfectly fine to ask: “When can we meet next?”
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. In my case, we communicate by email (I don’t know how to use LINE), and I generally aim for once a day. It may sound childish, but I like feeling connected in some way. That said, if we communicate too often, neither of us can concentrate on work, so I think we need to find a compromise. I do feel that communicating only about scheduling can be a little lonely, so I think it’s best to discuss how often you’d like to stay in touch and find a solution together.
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