A woman I made an offer to for the first time. She was wonderful, dinner was a lot of fun, and we spent some adult time together.

You’re a male member of the club, right? Haven’t you made offers to several women yet? Is she still your first one? I’m Fuu, and I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for eight years. There aren’t many women who are okay with going without a condom, but they do exist. That woman is definitely doing it bareback all over the place with other men, lol. You should try it with her. Since you have the chance, it might be a good experience? I answered the same question before, but there was a woman who was doing papa-katsu while working as an insurance saleswoman. Things went from a blowjob straight into her getting on top of me without a condom. At the time, I couldn’t resist my urges and went along with it bareback. (It was probably her sales technique for getting people to sign up for insurance, lol.) These days, among the women in my regular rotation of monthly arrangements, I have just one who’s okay with going without a condom—the “bareback specialist,” as Mac-san would put it. With everyone else, I use one. Basically, I follow the woman’s preference. STIs are scary, but whenever I go bareback, I take Vibramycin as a precaution. Honestly, if you really want to prevent STIs, you’d have to use a condom for oral too, and you can catch things in your throat from cunnilingus. But giving up cunnilingus would be boring and impossible for me. So, as long as I’m involved in this kind of activity, I figure chlamydia and gonorrhea are risks I have to accept—and I keep myself prepared to start medication immediately if I catch either one. That’s probably within the range of risk I’m willing to tolerate. That’s just my personal opinion, though ^⁠_⁠^ Everyone, use condoms. There’s no doubt they lower your chances of catching something...

“Is this something that happens often? (lol)” That wording has appeared many times before, so I assume it’s the same person. What happens if it is something that happens often, and what happens if it isn’t? Although it looks like a question at first glance, it really just seems like a blog post where you want to write about yourself. You should probably assume that future posts like this will be hidden.

Questions meant to raise awareness about going bare or using condoms seem to come up regularly. Personally, I don’t understand why anyone would want to go bare. All it does is increase the risk of infection. I’ve retired from that lifestyle now, but back when I used to visit sex workers, I caught gonorrhea and chlamydia twice from unprotected sumata. That was out of more than 300 women. I have no idea how many of those 300-plus women had an STI, but whether you consider that rate high or low is up to you. After that, I started using condoms and never got sick, despite seeing roughly the same number of women. Condoms really are amazing.

Is this the same person as always? I wonder if posting here really satisfies their need for validation.

In the past, three women have tried to have unprotected sex with me while on top. I’ve arranged dates for more than 200 people, so three cases is extremely rare. Your situation is quite unusual.

I’ve chosen one of the roughly ten women I see as my regular bareback partner—the type who doesn’t seem to have any other boyfriends or papas and probably doesn’t do one-night stands. I don’t want to catch an STI. But once, out of habit, I accidentally had sex with her using a condom. I tried to pull out and finish on her stomach, but nothing came out, and for a moment I wondered what was going on. In that sense, it’s fairly common. Maybe she has unprotected sex with all the other men and uses a condom only with you? That’s just speculation based on my own experience, though.