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Aug 19, 2026 18:11
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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I think it would be best to say upfront that you’re okay with it as long as it’s within the amount of one allowance.
Still, good for you—you’re so invested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that you can even post an “Urgent!” question just for a date. I have almost zero interest in papa-katsu. I enjoy my work so much that I’m pouring all my testosterone and dopamine into it, leaving none for papa-katsu.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
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I’d never heard of GYDA before.
It’s cute and has a nice vibe.
As for Fuu, though, she generally doesn’t do gifts. Once you give one, it becomes the new standard, and if you don’t top it next time, they lose interest—it’s just a hassle. So her stance is basically: buy what you want with your allowance.
But since this is papa-katsu focused heavily on the erotic side, during Fuu’s birthday month, we choose lingerie she likes together on the DRW website. Usually string panties or a thong—the stuff guys dream about. On top of the allowance, I at least get to play with her while she’s wearing it.
The moment I untie the strings is pure bliss lol
There’s something special about her birthday month. And sometimes, even outside of it, she’ll say, “Fuu, I wore the lingerie you gave me today,” and show up all ready to go—it’s amazing ^_^
I’m a pervert who gets excited thinking that her boyfriend, fuck buddy, and other papas probably get turned on by seeing her in that same lingerie too lol
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
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It sounds like she liked the idea of trying on different outfits more than the amount itself. You should take the initiative and say things like, “That looks good on you.”
Also, when a girl specifies a particular brand, she’s usually already looked at the website and decided what she wants in advance. Your role is to say something thoughtful, like “Yeah, that suits you,” or “I think the length is a little off,” and, of course, pay for it.
What you shouldn’t do is look restless and keep glancing at other customers, say indecisive things like, “Hmm, I don’t know if it suits you,” or fiddle with your phone and pay without even looking at her while she’s trying it on.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
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I’d never heard of GYDA before.
I’m in my 50s too, but I wouldn’t have the courage to walk into a store that sells clothes like these. It’s not quite like going into the women’s lingerie section, but it feels a bit like that.
For a birthday or other special occasion, wouldn’t one or two allowances be enough? On an ordinary day, maybe just covering the cost of dinner?
Age: Private
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I think a reasonable amount is whatever the person asking the question feels comfortable offering.