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Aug 19, 2026 07:03
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Wouldn’t it be fine as long as you don’t show it?
The main thing to keep in mind is that presenting yourself as unhappy won’t work in your favor here.
Hopefully, you can enjoy your arrangements and become more cheerful. But if you overthink things, follow everything you’re told, or keep forcing yourself to endure things, I think it could take a toll on you.
Please make your own enjoyment the priority when you’re active here.
Don’t push yourself, and if you don’t like something, say so ^_^
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Please be upfront about your history of self-harm. If you disclose it properly, there shouldn’t be a problem.
It’s not a good idea to hide it. The club may receive complaints from male members asking them to be honest in their profiles. If you don’t disclose it, you may be approached by a male member who isn’t comfortable with self-harm, which could make the experience unpleasant for both of you.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t really worry about it.
Even us older guys all have about five things in our past that we could never tell anyone else.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I occasionally come across women like that, so it seems possible.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
You’re already registered and asking whether you can apply under these circumstances, right?
Yes, you can apply even if you have a history of cutting yourself. In fact, you can still apply even if you have tattoos.
That said, some men may see self-harm scars and assume you might regularly go through difficult periods. They may worry that dating you could be complicated—for example, that you might suddenly be unable to make it on the day and disrupt their plans—and choose not to make an offer. (Some men also dislike tattoos.)
Of course, there are men who don’t mind. So you can still register; even if you receive fewer offers, you may still get some.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
My situation is a little unusual, but I see it as a plus because I feel there’s an emotional vulnerability there that I can connect with and support.
Do you know what “yami-ei” is? Look it up. Basically, you should try to find a papa (a male supporter) who’s vulnerable to people like me who are into yami-ei.
Even if you have self-harm scars, you can still apply, and if you have other strengths, such as your appearance, you may still be accepted.