I’m a college student who left Universe about a year ago. I’m thinking about rejoining, but I’d rather not have people I know find out, so I’d prefer to meet and part ways at a hotel instead of going to restaurants or stations together.

With Universe Club, we arrange meals between men and women. So, for the first meeting, you are “required” to have a meal together. The only exception is when there’s a specific reason, in which case having tea is allowed—but that is strictly an exception. You’re told that you can order whatever you like, so I think having only tea is just barely within the basic guidelines. Still, some people seem to treat the exception as the norm, and I’m not sure how I feel about that. For this reason, going straight to the man’s room or meeting at a hotel from the first meeting onward is prohibited. Conversely, if a man does this to you at the first meeting, please report it to the club. (For example, if you meet at a station and he suddenly takes you to a hotel room.) I believe the man will receive a serious warning from the club. Unfortunately, suddenly arranging to meet at a hotel or wanting to go to a man’s home does not align with Universe Club’s policies, so I think you would be better off going to the adult entertainment industry, such as a delivery service. That said, from the second meeting onward, whether you meet at a hotel or go to the man’s home is entirely up to the two of you. The point is simply that these arrangements cannot be made within the scope of Universe’s services. Please don’t misunderstand Universe’s commitment to responsible operations. Let me say it one more time: Universe Club arranges meal dates between men and women.

I understand being scared of going straight to a private room, and there may be times when the terms don’t work for you and you want to decline the arrangement. So, for the initial offer, ask the papa (a male supporter) to make the first meeting at a private-room restaurant, and mention that in your profile. (Some women do write this.) From the second meeting onward, you could arrange to meet directly at the room and ask to leave separately. I think it’s best to find a papa who’s okay with that. I have a monthly arrangement through Fuu with a woman who prefers shorter meetings. She was worried about being recognized, so she requested meeting and parting at the room. It’s been going on for over a year now, I think. That said, she’s young—19 at first, then 20—very beautiful, has a great figure, and the intimacy is good (she’s very tight), so the transactional relationship has continued despite being that straightforward. Other women competing for him act more like girlfriends, so as a monthly arrangement, it’s possible if you can offer enough value to compete with them through a room-only arrangement—basically, intimacy only.

I’d recommend using PATOLO. I think that kind of arrangement is possible too. If you’re attractive enough to receive 30 offers a month, you could start with a brief first meeting at a coffee shop like Renoir, and if you’re both interested, head straight to a hotel separately afterward, perhaps… With Universe, it seems like things often take a much more roundabout route… Though of course, it depends on the people involved.

Almost all of my monthly partners meet and leave at my place. *We used to meet and part ways at hotels.* We can talk plenty in the room, so I don’t really see the point of inserting a meal every time. I want to get back to work as soon as possible, and the women also save the extra time spent eating, so it’s a win-win. That said, even I probably wouldn’t make an offer if those terms were written in the profile. It’s more of a “once we get comfortable with each other, we’ll meet and part ways at a hotel” arrangement.

I think you just need to state that in your profile. (Though for the first meeting, I’d probably choose a private dining space.)

I occasionally come across profiles of women with those kinds of terms on other dating clubs. You might want to use one of those clubs.

With Universe Club, whether she’s a Type C or Type D, I don’t think meeting at a hotel from the very first date is ideal, since women should have the freedom to say no. It’s also better to clearly discuss how you view the relationship—including the allowance and other terms—before going to a hotel, as that can help avoid problems. From the second date onward, meeting and parting at a hotel is perfectly fine. I’ve had women I dated in the past who preferred that arrangement. That said, if you absolutely want to meet at a hotel from the first date, Letter Date or PATOLO may make it possible, since you can discuss things before meeting in person. However, Letter Date is only available to male members with Black status, so you’ll definitely receive fewer offers. As for PATOLO, male members of other clubs can also view profiles, so women who are concerned about being recognized may not register there in the first place. For the first date, I think it’s safest not to insist on meeting at a hotel and instead simply state that you’d prefer “a dinner date in a private room.”

In that case, Uni could risk being busted for facilitating prostitution, so a high-end delivery-service escort business—around ¥70,000 for 90 minutes, with the woman receiving ¥50,000—would probably be more suitable. If you want to confirm what the other person is like first, then a dating club such as Uni would still be the way to go. Maybe choose Dating Type D or C, and after the first hotel visit, say, “From next time on, I’d prefer to meet and part ways at the hotel.” Wouldn’t that work? I bought an apartment and turned one room into a private hookup room, and I think quite a few papas do something similar. Back when I used love hotels, there were occasionally women who wanted to meet and part ways at the hotel. But I never had anyone suggest meeting at a love hotel for the very first time. This is purely a thought experiment, but if you met at a love hotel for the first meeting and the woman could say, “Sorry, I’ve changed my mind. I’ll just take the transportation money and go home today,” and have that accepted, then perhaps it wouldn’t count as facilitating prostitution. I think the key issue is whether the woman has the right to refuse. If she can refuse, then it seems like all you did was arrange a consensual relationship, so it probably wouldn’t constitute facilitating prostitution.

It’s Fullerene! I think that’s totally fine! Besides, hotels often have restaurants, right? If you’re a student, you could probably explain it away as simply having tea there. It only seems suspicious if you’re having dinner or afternoon tea together. Some women even state in their profiles that they prefer to have tea for the first meeting.

For me too, the general rule after the second date is to meet and part ways at the hotel. Even if we spend a long time together, we eventually run out of things to talk about, and I don’t eat much either. Since I haven’t reduced the allowance, it’s more time-efficient, and I’ve never had anyone complain. Of course, you may need to compromise for the first meeting, such as agreeing to a private room, but I think a fair number of men prefer this kind of arrangement.