Does anyone have a long-term contract with a city hotel?
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I’m seeing women about four times a week. I’m embarrassed to admit that I meet around five different women several times a month. Since we sometimes meet during the day as well as at night, I have to look for day-use rooms, and it’s also a hassle having to bring various chargers and other things to the hotel almost every day.
Recently, a city hotel I often use suggested that I sign a monthly contract. Does anyone else have this kind of arrangement for meeting women? Would a monthly contract be unpopular with women because it suggests that I’m seeing other women or using the same bed with different women?
I’m not considering renting or buying an apartment because dealing with cleaning and laundry would be too much trouble.
Booking a hotel every single time is also a hassle, so I’d appreciate any other solutions.
Thank you.
I rented a place as both a home office and a second home, thinking I could use it for that kind of thing too.
But then I started worrying that I wouldn’t want them staying too long if I invited them over, and that it would be awkward figuring out when to say, “You should go.” In the end, I realized love hotels are more convenient.
Is there any reason not to just use a love hotel instead of a city hotel? Love hotels are great.
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If you’re doing it that often, another option might be renting an apartment and hiring a domestic worker through an agency.
With a highly reliable agency, you can leave them a key and have routine services done while you’re away. Cost-wise, it probably wouldn’t be much different from using a city hotel, but it would likely involve less hassle with reservations, changes, and cancellations.
Being able to use the place as a workspace or second home, and leave some belongings there, could also be worthwhile benefits.
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Fuu,
I’ve set up exactly that: a workspace that also serves as a private room for intimacy.
It’s incredibly convenient. Even if a girl cancels at the last minute, I can simply keep working, so it doesn’t affect me at all.
Since setting things up this way, I tell women in advance, “I only meet around ●● Station,” and arrange dates only with those who are okay with that. Yesterday and today, I had first meetings with women at a café near ●● Station. I have two more first meetings at a café tomorrow.
The room is even cleaner than a love hotel—or any business hotel, for that matter—so women virtually never complain about it. I don’t pursue arrangements with girls who can’t come to my room. No matter how beautiful she is, my work comes first and girls come second.
I recommend setting up a workspace/private room like this to the person who asked the question as well.
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Some people have monthly hotel contracts, I think. Fuu doesn’t, since I only use a room once a week.
I really don’t think you need to feel embarrassed about seeing five people, though lol. Fuu also has five regulars, each on a monthly arrangement.
Even with a monthly hotel contract, you’d still go home—you wouldn’t be staying at the hotel every day. So in the end, it’s probably more like a reservation-based contract, right? The hotel would handle the bed-making and cleaning, so I don’t think you’d have to worry about finding traces of the previous woman.
Fuu exclusively uses love hotels that can be booked online.
Someday, I’d love to rent a place and have a dedicated room. Something like the papa’s apartment in Shinji Nojima’s drama “Papa-katsu”—part workplace, part private room. It’s a dream of mine ✨
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Four times a week is pretty intense.
For trips out of town or overnight stays, I use a city hotel. During the day in Tokyo, I use a love hotel. I switch between them depending on the situation.
Hope that helps.
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Aren’t you the type who doesn’t do much housework?
Rather than booking a hotel every day and bringing your own chargers, cleaning and washing the towels is much easier—and I think it feels better, too. Towels just need to go into the washing machine and be washed.
There’s one girl who really likes cleaning, and every time she comes over, she even cleans out the drain. She’s been a huge help. It’s also fun to go shopping together for the amenities she likes and stock them up—Decorté shampoo and conditioner, and even feminine hygiene products if necessary.
> “I’m seeing other women,” or “I sleep in the same bed with different women”—aren’t those things generally unpopular with women?
This is just my personal take, but I don’t think that’s what the girls are focused on. In a word, it’s about creating a space that makes them think, “I want to live here!”
If you sign a long-term hotel contract, the man’s lifestyle—or rather, his middle-aged-man vibe—will probably start to show. I use both a rental apartment and a privately owned condo as private rooms, but I make a point of keeping them as free of personal traces as possible. The rental is designed to look like a female college student’s apartment, while the condo is styled like a miniature resort condominium. I don’t leave any personal belongings related to my work there at all.
If a guy finds that kind of thing too much trouble, then even if he uses a hotel, he’s better off booking pay-per-meeting rather than long-term.
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I used to have a long-term hotel arrangement, but my belongings gradually started piling up, so I ended up renting an apartment instead.
I considered giving my single-mother partner some extra allowance to handle the cleaning and laundry, but that became a hassle too, so I just do it myself now.
She already knows I’m seeing other women, so it’s not exactly news. And since hotel beds are used by everyone, I figure this is less likely to raise suspicions. It seems the women appreciate not having to enter a hotel together.
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