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Jul 18, 2026 19:10
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How much personal information do you share with the other person? I’d appreciate answers from both men and women.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
You’re the same person who posted the previous question, right?
You wrote, “The papa I’m currently seeing was my first,” but then you wrote, “I’m thinking about starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).”
It makes me wonder if you’re just posting these for something to do rather than genuinely asking a question.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Is this a bait post?
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Here at Universe Club, women in their early 30s—especially those rated C—should receive the most offers, so if you’re attractive, this is probably your prime time.
Since you go to the trouble of registering under a club name, it’s best not to share more personal information than necessary.
Even after you’ve told someone you want to break up, they might come to your home or workplace, or start contacting you directly in a stalker-like way, so be careful.
That said, someone like Fuu is even doing business with her regular papa-katsu partners.
If he’s a papa you can trust, carefully assess the situation and proceed at your own risk.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
My style is exactly the same as Seattle’s.
I don’t hide my personal information. Since I invite them to my home, there’s no point in hiding it. However, I don’t ask women for their personal information—I wait until they choose to tell me.
I’ll look after the important ones for the rest of their lives. In effect, I take them off the market. So far, I’ve done that for two women.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m pretty open right away—even sharing my address. I invite them to my home, too.
With long-term monthly arrangements, I go in prepared to look out for them for life, so people who hide their personal information don’t last.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you get baited (well, it may still be useful as a reference for other readers)...
I think the woman should simply follow the man’s lead, and there’s no need for her to disclose everything first. As they continue seeing each other, they’ll naturally have opportunities to share whatever information is necessary.
If the man is open from the start, he’ll be more careful and considerate to avoid problems later on, and will likely conduct himself cautiously and gentlemanly in every way.
Seeing how he treats her will help the woman feel at ease, and I think she’ll naturally become more open as well. From the way she opens up, you can also get a general sense of her papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experience and outlook.