Tips Jul 15, 2026 19:42

I’m thinking about signing up with a dating club.

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I have an average-looking face and a figure that’s currently around 90 kg and quite heavy (though I plan to lose weight before registering). I’m 169 cm tall and have an I-cup bust. Would these be seen as strengths in this kind of setting? Also, is it possible to pass the screening or receive offers even if I’m on the heavier side? Finally, I’d appreciate any tips or secrets to getting accepted. Thank you in advance.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
He’s an older man who invests in stocks. He likes curvy women. I have a friend who’s into that too.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
You’re probably using “spec” without realizing it, but it makes you sound unintelligent. What’s the point of making the other person do the subtraction? Just write, “I’m 169 cm tall, weigh 79 kg, and wear an I cup.” Whether that’s seen as a strength depends on the man’s preferences, doesn’t it? At 79 kg, you’re far outside my type, and even if you have a large bust, it wouldn’t make any difference to me. Whether you’re accepted for registration and whether you receive any offers also depend heavily on luck. The fact that you’re asking for tips and tricks also makes your sly desire to get through life as easily as possible pretty obvious.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It might be difficult. At that height, if you weigh more than Fuu, I wouldn’t make you an offer at all. I’m not really into large breasts either—anything above a D looks like a cow to me ^⁠_⁠^ I prefer a slender, well-balanced figure, so I’d make offers to women with specs around 110 ± 5. Everyone has a place where they fit in, and you’ll be happier on the right stage rather than struggling somewhere that doesn’t suit you. You might be happier—and more popular—at a snack bar for curvy women or a curvy-women-only adult entertainment venue. The bigger your breasts, the more likely you are to be appreciated in places like that, so maybe you’d be happier there.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I think it depends not only on looks, but also on whether you’re flexible with your time, good in bed, or have other qualities that make someone want to date you.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If you register with the Osaka branch, there’s a pretty good chance you’ll receive an offer from an older gentleman who trades stocks. P.S. Since I was kicked out, I never ended up meeting Seattle-san after all, haha. Next time, there might be another rules change and I’ll probably get shut out again, lol.
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
80 kilos, huh? Being tall with an I-cup bust might work in your favor. Personally, I never make offers to plus-size women, but there are quite a few registered women with fuller figures, so there’s still a chance you’ll appeal to men who prefer that type. If you’re planning to lose weight, don’t just ask about it—start taking action and go to an interview after you’ve slimmed down. Whether you’ll be accepted or not is something you can find out right away by going, and no one here can guarantee the outcome. Lose a significant amount of weight and get tons of offers, okay? Hope this helps.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
At 169 cm tall with a 90 cm bust, if you weigh around 79–80 kg, you might have been rejected at the interview if you didn’t have an I-cup bust. (Though if you had a cute face or a pleasant personality, I don’t think you’d necessarily be rejected.) In that sense: “Would these kinds of features be seen as strengths?” Yes, I would consider them strengths. “I plan to lose weight before registering.” Losing weight is quite difficult, so I don’t think it will come off that easily. If it were easy to lose, you would have already done so. That said, using something currently popular like Mounjaro may help you lose weight, but it will also make your prized bust smaller. By the time you reach your target weight, I suspect your bust may have shrunk to around a D cup. Then, if you regain the weight afterward, you may end up gaining weight without your bust getting larger again, which could become a serious issue. It’s not that Mounjaro itself is bad. I think the point is that with rapid weight loss, the breasts tend to become smaller first, so you’ll need to consider how to deal with that. > Lastly, could you tell me any tips or secrets for passing the interview? I think the key is to treat the staff member interviewing you with exceptional kindness, as though he were a wealthy papa (a male supporter). Many women believe they can do more in front of men, but if they can’t show that side in front of the staff, it won’t be mentioned in their profile comments. So I think it’s important to make the staff feel that, “This woman would surely behave this way in front of men too, and men would be happy with her.”
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