I previously asked about my sincere papas having partial phimosis.
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After reading everyone’s answers and doing some research, I believe they probably have true phimosis. We shower separately, and I have them soak in the bath, but I just can’t get rid of the smell…
There are two people like this, and one of them smells unbelievably strong. Since it retracts slightly while I’m licking it, I mistakenly thought it was partial phimosis.
Thank you all so much for your many answers!
1. Do people with true phimosis generally not want to have it treated? They both have plenty of money, so I don’t think surgery would be too difficult for them. Does that mean they don’t really feel self-conscious about it…?
2. When they ask me to lick them, it’s difficult to honestly say that the smell makes it hard for me. Is telling them the only way to handle it?
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In papa-katsu, basic manners mean not making the other person uncomfortable and avoiding anything that would count against you.
That’s what makes a papa (a male supporter) sincere and gentlemanly, in my opinion, lol.
If he can’t even take care of his hygiene, he’s inconsiderate and oblivious to his surroundings—in other words, a papa who fails the test.
If he smells bad and you can’t stand it, I think it’s perfectly fine to end things. On the other hand, if you can put up with it and still go that far, that’s incredible. I respect you.
If you spoil him, he’ll never realize it, though…
Maybe he’ll finally notice after being rejected by women over and over, and get surgery?
Honestly, if he has enough money for papa-katsu, I think he should just get his phimosis treated, lol.
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When I was very young—before I even understood what phimosis was—my father apparently took me to a doctor and had me undergo surgery. I barely remember it myself. Thanks to that, I’m average in size, but the ridge is prominent, so I’m told it feels good when it makes contact.
That’s why I think people with true phimosis should have surgery, though I realize many choose not to.
I’m very sensitive to smells during sex, and I basically can’t be with someone who has a strong odor. Some women may have a slight odor occasionally depending on their physical condition, but that’s fine.
If you really can’t stand it, I think the right choice is to cut ties cleanly and take your chances with someone else.
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It sounds like you’re not even sure whether it’s a retractable or non-retractable foreskin.
If it were “sincere papas all happen to have retractable foreskins,” that would make sense—but saying “sincere papas all happen to have non-retractable foreskins” makes you want to say, “Come on, that can’t be true.”
If it can be pulled back even a little, retracting it about 1 mm farther each time might eventually allow you to pull it all the way back.
That said, if the skin turns bright red, like you’ve peeled off a scab, touching it causes intense pain. Maybe you’re leaving it alone because you don’t want to endure that pain for several months until the skin returns to its normal color. I pulled mine back myself when I was in high school, and I remember feeling like enduring that pain was part of becoming an adult.
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I didn’t know the difference between true phimosis and retractable foreskin until I asked an AI just now 😅
So with true phimosis, you can’t retract the foreskin even if you try, right? If that’s the case, even washing in the bath wouldn’t get rid of the smell, so are the three options:
- Get surgery
- Don’t give him oral
- Put something under your nose and put up with the smell
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I don’t have true phimosis, so I’m not sure whether I’d want to get it corrected.
Even among people with true phimosis, some probably want to have it corrected while others don’t. The same goes for feeling self-conscious about it.
And who exactly do you mean by “everyone”? Do you really think everyone with true phimosis has the same opinion?
I’ve also heard that surgery for true phimosis is covered by insurance and costs only a few tens of thousands of yen.
Why not simply say, “I can’t suck a penis”? If you can’t even say that, then I think you should avoid dating men you don’t like.
You should get into the habit of thinking things through for yourself before asking questions.
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You can tell from the ID that it’s a different person, so I thought questions posted by someone pretending to be the original asker couldn’t be displayed. But since an answer was added, I guess it was displayed after all.
That said, from now on, questions posted while pretending to be someone else will be hidden.
As for the question itself, I think it’s probably a made-up scenario. But if that situation were real:
If you dislike it that much, don’t meet them again.
I think that’s perfectly fine. Whether you meet someone again is entirely up to you.
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Surgery is the only treatment, but it’s hard to imagine someone who’s reached that age and still hasn’t had it deciding to do so now.
For now, why not ask, “This is phimosis, right? I heard it increases the risk of cancer, so wouldn’t it be better to have surgery?”
I mean, if you looked up phimosis, you probably saw that it can increase the risk of cancer. Didn’t you think of suggesting something like that? That part is kind of puzzling.
Apparently, phimosis affects 1–10% of men—one in every 10 to 100 people. So that would mean the questioner has somewhere between 20 and 200 papas (male supporters). Who knows, though.
Maybe he feels insecure about having phimosis, so he’s more considerate than usual and comes across as a good papa. Some women don’t mind the smell. I once met a girl who said, “I can’t accept feces because it’s foreign matter and not part of the person, but the smell of the anus and intestinal fluids is fine because they belong to that person.” I’m not into that sort of thing, though.
You might lose if you compete with women like that, but it’s better not to fight on those terms. It’ll break you. If all your papas are inevitably stressful for you, it may be best to leave papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether.
I just thought of an amusing idea: say, “I’ll pull it back and clean it for you,” then yank it down hard. If you make him erect, it could become paraphimosis, where it gets stuck and can’t be pulled back, requiring emergency surgery. Pushing him that far might be amusing. Since surgery would be better for him, you’d be doing a good deed by giving him that little push.
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I think men who leave their phimosis untreated have no right to complain if they’re discriminated against. They’re a public nuisance.
If you’re not going to get surgery, stay out of this scene.
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That sounds really difficult.
I can’t say whether circumcision status is the reason, since I have no experience with it, but perhaps those men simply don’t wash themselves properly on a regular basis?
I’ve never had a man in my mouth, so I can’t comment on the smell, but I have stopped seeing women I met through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) when their odor was really bad. So I think you’re very kind and considerate, questioner.
That’s all.
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