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Jun 24, 2026 10:53
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🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I looked over your profile.
I’m in a different region, but the area the questioner belongs to has a large number of female members, so there’s a lot of competition.
At present, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a male-dominated market. However, because men are limited by both money and time, I think many can only meet a few women a week—or, in some cases, just one.
From the men’s perspective, it’s probably a matter of competing for slots—one or a few women per week—alongside women they’ve already met and those waiting for other offers.
Personally, I prefer women with a healthy fullness to their thighs and such. Being extremely thin is a negative. Even if I can tell that the way someone talks is calculated or that she’s putting on an act, I think it’s better if she still leaves some room for spontaneity.
If she doesn’t smile, I feel I’d probably be disappointed after meeting her. You’re not choosing a secretary or an employee, so being overly formal and precise in her responses is actually a negative.
The club also benefits when you receive an offer and generate revenue, so your interests are aligned. Try asking the club staff what you can do to make it easier to receive offers.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
To the person who posted the answer,
Thank you for summoning the courage to share your profile!
I’m sure you’re working hard on your beauty and body management, but you may be a little too thin.
You’re still 8 kg short of reaching “spec 110,” so if you could gain at least another 5 kg and look a little healthier, you’d probably get more support from papas looking for an adult relationship (intimate). Right now, you look so fragile that I worry you might break.
I assume you’re currently taking a leave of absence from school. (I hope you feel better soon.) Once you’re able to return to school, ask the club to change your profile from “on leave” to “student” when they retake your photos.
Here, emphasizing that you’re “pitiful” or “unfortunate” doesn’t work very well and often has the opposite effect when it comes to getting offers.
I think there are many papas who want to enjoy light, fun papa-katsu with someone healthy, like an ordinary office worker or student.
Don’t take every answer too seriously, lol. These are just suggestions, so only adopt the advice that feels right for you, lol.
Have fun with it ^_^
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
After looking over your profile, I felt you haven’t done much to showcase yourself, such as:
- Not including comments from women
- Not adding a schedule calendar
- Not writing a papa-katsu interview
- Not uploading any private photos
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I looked over your profile.
It’s based on classes rather than ranks, but I felt that you’ve been placed in a reasonable class.
Men’s preferences regarding body type vary, but I think it may also have to do with being too slim, not having much of a bust, or wearing traditional braces with visible wires. The condition of your skin may also be a factor.
Since you only recently registered, I think it’s still too early to say that you’re not receiving any offers at all.
That said, after reading your profile, I couldn’t see anything that really stood out as an appealing point. There are many female members in your age range in the area where you’re registered. With so many other women to choose from, I don’t think men will send you an offer unless you give them a clear reason to choose you.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
One of my monthly arrangements is a popular hostess at an ultra-luxury lounge that’s considered among the very best in Japan, but she was only Gold Class. She’s young, too.
The class rankings may or may not mean anything, so I wouldn’t worry about them. That said, there’s probably a reason she isn’t getting any offers—maybe she doesn’t look as good in videos or photos as she does in person.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
With just this information, it’s hard to tell why you aren’t receiving any offers, so please email Maezawa-san and let him know which woman you are.
If Maezawa-san reveals to the male-member respondents, “This is the woman in question,” they’ll be able to point out specific areas for improvement. I’ve given advice in a similar situation before. Maezawa-san, sorry to trouble you, but I’d appreciate your help with this. m(_ _)m
I looked at your profile.
You’re totally my type, so I’d definitely like to make you an offer, but unfortunately you’re not in Nagoya.
Actually, you’re the person who binge-eats and purges, right? Your university major fits the pattern too.
Do you live with your parents? If you want to move out, I’d be happy to help you properly, even taking care of your apartment, and stick with you through it all.
I write a column here:
https://lab.universe-club.jp/column/kashokuouto
Please give it a read if you’re interested.
Men have all kinds of preferences, so there will probably be people like me who are really drawn to your individuality.
That said, I’m not sure you’ll appeal to everyone. Being this thin will probably put more people off than attract them. But that doesn’t mean you’re being rejected—there are people who like that—so please don’t misunderstand. Have confidence in yourself.
マルケス
Male
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クラブ活動歴だけは３０年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I took a look at your profile.
The other respondents have already covered almost everything perfectly, but personally, there’s just one thing I’d point out: your photos don’t show you smiling.
Of course, if you’re taking a leave of absence from school or currently wearing braces, I understand that it may be difficult. Still, it would be nice to see a photo of you smiling. If you have any recent private photos where you’re smiling, why not upload one to your private photos?
People’s preferences vary widely when it comes to body type and looks, but I think a nice smile is generally something most men appreciate.