I’m the person who asked about sex (blowjobs) on June 10.

Thank you to everyone who took the time to answer. The way I worded my question was confusing, and it didn’t come across correctly. Since I hadn’t registered an email address or anything, I couldn’t add a clarification in a reply, so I’m posting this here as both a follow-up and an update. When I give him a blowjob, he lies on his back while I sit between his legs. The issue was that he would push my head with his hand in time with the stroking, and he was pushing so quickly that it was difficult for me. I saw him and we had sex the other day. Last time, I simply let him push my head, so it ended up becoming something like deep-throating. This time, I kept my neck firm and moved at my own pace, so I was able to give him a blowjob and have sex without feeling bothered or uncomfortable. I think I’ll continue doing it this way, and if I get the chance, I’ll ask him about it. That’s all for the clarification and update. Since this is a question box, I’d like to ask another question. He absolutely won’t have sex anywhere other than a love hotel, but we do sometimes fool around and touch each other at his place. When he touches my nipples, what would be an equivalent place for me to touch him in return? Where would you touch, or like to be touched, in that situation? The morning after staying at a hotel, we had sex once and were fooling around afterward. He touched my nipples, and since I couldn’t think of anywhere comparable, I touched him there instead—and it led to a second round… (Until then, we had always stopped after one round in the morning.) Since we don’t have sex at his place, touching him there makes him get hard, so I’m wondering where else I could touch him. I’d really appreciate hearing where you would personally like to be touched.