I’m really struggling… with my own fetish… I want the saliva of young women… It’s my dream to have them let me drink it or spit it in my face. How could I make that dream come true…? I’m sorry for being such a pervert…

I’m not into BDSM myself, so I only go occasionally with a girl out of curiosity, but I’ve been to places called BDSM bars a few times and seen young women straddling older men, letting saliva drip into their mouths from above while the men swallowed it happily. BDSM bars generally have a drinking area and a separate space for play. If you buy a girl a drink or something, she’ll provide some light play. Excrement and bodily waste are off-limits, as is exposing the genitals, but things like making someone swallow saliva, kicking them in the testicles, bondage, and whipping seem to be allowed because they don’t constitute prostitution or public indecency. That said, policies vary by venue, so it may not be acceptable at every BDSM bar. There are even regular events centered around ball-kicking. Men who get off on having their testicles kicked are happily kicked by specialized young women, some of whom hold karate ranks. The men spread their legs while squatting, and the audience—people at the venue—cheers, “Dosukoi, dosukoi♪” It’s basically a kind of interactive show. I assume the questioner is probably the same, but wanting to drink a young woman’s saliva is a sexual preference, not necessarily something without which you can’t get an erection, right? You can still ejaculate normally, and sex itself may feel good in its own way, but there’s probably a lingering sense of dissatisfaction, like something is missing. If so, the best approach would be to isolate just the saliva-related part and satisfy that separately. I imagine quite a few people have ordinary sex with their wives or girlfriends and are reasonably satisfied, but still use fetish bars or dating clubs because they feel unfulfilled right at the very end. One more thing: there are STIs that can be transmitted through oral sex, so they can probably be transmitted through saliva as well—chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and so on. So please be careful, get tested regularly, and make sure you don’t pass anything on to other women you’re seeing. I came up with this in response to an earlier question and am reposting it here. Questioner, please don’t take Makeotoko-san’s answer at face value and mistakenly assume that “paying ¥100,000 will make it okay.” Don’t think money gives you the right to do anything. That crosses a line. Three basic principles regarding sexual preferences in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan): 1. Don’t use money to force your sexual preferences on someone who dislikes them. 2. Don’t endure someone else’s preferences for money if they don’t suit you. 3. Even when your preferences don’t match, it’s possible to have a relationship where both people are satisfied with ordinary sex. Just for reference, if I were a young woman, I absolutely would not want to let the questioner drink my saliva or have me spit on him. I wouldn’t care whether it was ¥100,000 or ¥1 million—if I didn’t like it, I wouldn’t like it. No particular reason needed. On the other hand, I think I’d be perfectly fine with the questioner filming me fully nude, with my face visible. There’s no hierarchy among sexual preferences, but people still have likes and dislikes. I’m not picking a fight with Makeotoko-san; that’s the point I’m making. Just as sexual preferences are diverse, so are people’s levels of discomfort toward unusual preferences. Let’s respect each other.

It probably wasn’t showing up right away, so I think you ended up posting it again. In short: 1. Join Universe Club’s Black Class, and the staff will help find someone for you (be sure to confirm this properly when you join). 2. Join PATOLO and make an offer to a woman from an SM club through PATOLO. 3. Join an SM club. I think those would be your options.

Thanks for posting again. You set the person you wanted to answer as a “female member,” then waited for a response while going “huff, huff.” The questioner’s pervy side really comes through, which is great! I’m enjoying this ^⁠_⁠^ If you’re that into it, I’m sure you’ve looked it up online, but apparently fetish-oriented escort services offer options like spit-in-the-soy-sauce-dispenser play. Since you want to go all out, I think that would suit you better. Fuu isn’t interested in saliva, though. Everyone has different preferences, so I think you should enjoy what you like. Lately, Fuu has been hooked on making intimate videos with her regular supporter. He’ll let her film quite a bit as long as his face isn’t shown, so she gets excited during the shoots like an adult-video director, and watching them later is exciting too—they make great material. She has a thing for narrow waists, so her collection of rear-view shots is really growing ^⁠_⁠^

Most papa-katsu girls will do it if you give them an allowance of 100,000 yen. I brought up the subject with a Platinum Premium girl I met through Universe Club, who is currently sleeping soundly beside me and with whom I’ve apparently “leveled up” into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. This is part of my series on how far you can go with someone you’ve just met through papa-katsu: Kissing: I’d rather not, but if she asks, I have no choice but to do it. Oral: Easier than kissing, so I can do it. Penetration: Okay. Drooling: Depends on the person. If I’m comfortable kissing her, I might do it for her—but I might still be put off myself. Taking photos: Absolutely not. Even with a girlfriend, I’d prefer to avoid it. NN: Out of the question in papa-katsu. With a loser guy, I wouldn’t want anything other than NN. If you surveyed 100 papa-katsu girls, the answers would probably be all over the place. In the past, I’ve asked quite a few girls to drool on me depending on the mood, and every single one agreed. So I can’t imagine being told no—but maybe that’s the same for me as asking Mac-san to take nude photos. Among my regular partners, only one has ever let me take intimate videos or nude photos. She was my first girlfriend, whom I met through Universe Club. By the way, the beautiful woman in her mid-thirties I’m meeting next week doesn’t allow cunnilingus. Drooling is okay. I think it really depends on the papa’s personality. The chances of someone like me or Kamihikoki-san being turned down when asking for drooling are practically zero, and they probably wouldn’t even show any sign of disliking it. But if I asked one of my regular partners to let me take photos of her naked, I think she’d be completely put off. It would be so unlike my usual character. Mac-san is probably the kind of guy who can naturally say, “Let me take nude photos of you.” He has the kind of personality where asking that wouldn’t ruin the mood. I think Crosswalk-san gets the other person to agree to a drive on their first date because it suits his character. A first-date drive doesn’t suit mine, so there’s a good chance it would kill the mood. That’s why I don’t ask. I can’t imagine being turned down when it comes to drooling, but if I ever were, I might develop a mental block about asking again. Personally, I only want that when things are at their most intense with a girl. I would never randomly say, “Give me some saliva.” Sometimes we drink water by passing it mouth to mouth, either giving or receiving it, but that’s also something that happens naturally when the mood is really heated.

I’ve never met a woman who turned those things down. I don’t like the idea of having someone spit on my face, so I’ve never done that, but otherwise, if you’ve built the kind of relationship where you can ask, I think she’ll do things that make you happy. It’s best to ask while she’s on top. Also, I think it’s important to do those things with someone you’ve grown close to—and just as important to build a relationship that doesn’t depend on them.