Married papas probably have a hard time with gifts that leave a physical trace, right? If there’s anything someone has done for you that made you happy, I’d love to hear about it 🙏

It depends on the person, so I think it’s best to ask them. By telling them, “I’d like to do something for you,” you can get the conversation going and strengthen your relationship. You seem like a sweet person, OP. As for Fuu, I don’t need gifts (and taking things home is difficult). I’m happier with actions or experiences than with things! One thing that made me happy was getting chocolates we could eat together in the room on Valentine’s Day, along with a handwritten note on the hotel notepad featuring a character she likes and saying, “I love you, Fuu.” I took a photo with my phone and keep it as a memory in a locked folder. When someone asked what she could do for Fuu’s birthday, we looked through the sexy-but-cute lingerie site DRW together beforehand, picked out lingerie to my taste, and she wore it on our birthday-month date. Then we had an adult relationship in the room! For the record, I absolutely love string thongs! Ahh, so exciting ^⁠_⁠^ (DRW is the best, and the models are great too ^⁠_⁠^) ※Of course, on the date when we picked out the lingerie, I added the price of the lingerie to her allowance ^⁠_⁠^ The girls Fuu has monthly arrangements with are enthusiastic and wear sexy lingerie that suits my taste. We have fun choosing it together, so it makes me happy too! I highly recommend it ^⁠_⁠^ If your papa is the sexy type, I think he’d be happy if you talked to him about it. Sometimes they even wear the lingerie we bought together on a regular date, which makes things exciting then too ^⁠_⁠^ As an aside, imagining that she also wears that lingerie when she’s with her boyfriend, friends-with-benefits, or other papas—and that they had a great time in it—is exciting too ^⁠_⁠^ NTR? lol

That’s true—gifts can be tricky. I often get things like sweets or coffee beans, but honestly, they don’t make me happy at all. On the other hand, I was glad to receive sunscreen and some kind of gel—maybe it was for moisturizing after sun exposure? I still keep them in my car and use them when needed. So it really depends on the person. Speaking for myself, I’d be happier if they simply asked what I wanted. Hope that helps.

Some people may not want gifts, while others don’t mind them. I think it depends on what the “gift” is. In the past, someone mentioned a ballpoint pen. Since it’s something you can buy and use yourself, most people wouldn’t mind receiving one as a present—but again, it depends on the person. Some might find it inconvenient. And of course, some people simply don’t want a ballpoint pen in the first place. Why not gradually bring it up in conversation and find out what the person you’re seeing would actually be happy to receive—or wouldn’t find bothersome?

What makes someone happy varies from person to person. Before collecting stories about what made complete strangers happy, I think you should seriously consider what your partner would actually appreciate. If you’ve built a decent relationship with them, you should be able to think of at least a few things they might enjoy. If you can’t, it means you haven’t really been paying attention to them at all.