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May 24, 2026 09:59
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Has anyone here dated someone with braces, especially traditional wire braces?
I don’t mind how they look, but I assume adult relationships would mean no oral sex or deep kissing, so I can’t help hesitating.
What do you all think?
Thank you in advance.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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Can you really be satisfied in other ways without deep kissing or oral?
If you’re going to continue seeing her regularly as a monthly arrangement, she’ll probably do it once she’s healed. So should you wait and hold back until then? How do you decide?
Recently, a woman became my regular partner again on Fuu. She’s currently getting orthodontic treatment, and on days when the tightening hurts, she doesn’t even want to eat—so no oral or deep kissing either.
But she has a cute face, a great figure, is sexy, and is flexible enough to take me deep, lol.
On days when her teeth feel okay, she’ll do oral. That makes it feel extra special, too, lol. She’s good at it and it feels great.
She has about six months left until the treatment is finished, so I’ll put up with it for six months, lol. Once it’s over, she’ll do 69 as standard, too, lol.
For now, I’ll just make do with my imagination.
As for you, try waiting it out if you can. If you can’t, go with another offer.
Age: Private
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If the wire is sharp, it can cut the inside of my mouth, so I have it carefully adjusted at the dentist. That shouldn’t be a problem during adult time.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve met several women with braces, but none of them said they were opposed to kissing or oral sex.
Normally, if someone says she doesn’t like kissing or oral sex, I usually don’t see her again. But there was one interesting 19-year-old who said she couldn’t do oral sex because she was still a minor. She was a fun and unusual girl, so I started seeing her repeatedly.
She sent me a photo from her coming-of-age ceremony, and from the next time we met, oral sex was officially on the table.
Looking back, it’s a slightly strange but amusing memory.
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve dated several women with braces, including women from other clubs, and it never bothered me. The women who join these clubs tend to be very beauty-conscious, so I imagine quite a few of them are likely to be undergoing orthodontic treatment.
When I’m seeing someone, I try to bring out her best qualities, so perhaps I’m simply blind to the things that aren’t so good.
I feel that focusing on the good points may ultimately lead to my own happiness.
Sorry if that sounds presumptuous.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I don’t think orthodontic treatment is directly related to whether someone is willing to kiss or go further.
People who don’t want to do those things probably won’t, whether or not they have braces, while people who are okay with it will likely still be okay with it even if they do.
In the end, I think it comes down to how you feel about it.
> “Since it looks like it may end up being a no…”
Are you talking about before making an offer?
I think it would be best to go on a date and talk things over. After the date, it’s a matter of free choice, so they might turn you down altogether—before even getting to kissing or going further. There’s probably no point worrying about what comes after that yet.
And if you’re concerned about wasting the offer fee, why not try a matching app instead?
Matching apps generally don’t charge an offer fee, so you may not have to worry about feeling like you’ve wasted money.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I have no problem with blowjobs or kissing. I’m not particularly fond of kissing, though.
I might like kissing during penetration, since it gives you the feeling of being taken from both ends at once. But I don’t really mind if it’s not included.
I enjoy receiving blowjobs, and braces aren’t a problem at all. By the way, blowjobs from girls with tongue piercings feel amazing.
The other day, I met a girl who was a Type D and didn’t allow kissing. It wasn’t that she was trying to preserve her chastity—she simply disliked the uncomfortable pressure of someone’s face coming close to hers. Everyone’s different.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Bad breath can become pretty strong if you don’t brush your teeth properly or use interdental brushes.
I once met a woman through Universe Club whose orthodontic appliances made her breath exceptionally bad.
When she came out of the shower, she told me, “I don’t do kissing.” I remember thinking she should have mentioned that during dinner, but I let it go and we moved on to intimacy. Even when we were just lying next to each other, her breath reached me, which was quite a shock.
She also had body odor and groin odor (the “Manchurian Incident”). In other words, she smelled all over.
But she was incredibly cute, and the sex was amazing. So I started a monthly arrangement with her. We eventually parted ways because she was getting married, but when we said goodbye, she introduced me to her best friend, who then entered a monthly arrangement with me. Those were the days. Her friend, who resembled TV announcer Yumi Nagashima, was even cuter, but we weren’t compatible physically, so we parted ways after about six or seven adult dates.
① Her breath, underarms, and private area all smelled, but we were physically compatible.
② Her appearance and scent were perfect, but we weren’t physically compatible.
It probably depends on the person, but at the time, I thought ① was the winner. Even if ② is cuter than ①, is physical compatibility ultimately what matters most?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you asking whether it actually caused any problems?
I once dated someone who had braces with brackets on the outside of her teeth. Since they were on the outside, they didn’t interfere with oral sex. I’m not interested in kissing someone who’s only having sex for the allowance, so our relationship was fairly superficial, and I don’t know whether they would have affected deep kissing.
More than that, I often find myself wondering whether people who get orthodontic treatment after becoming adults came from families that didn’t have much financial leeway. People raised in families without much room to spare often don’t have much leeway themselves, so that was what concerned me.
Adding this after reading Yozakura’s answer:
I’m only speaking from my own experience, and I don’t mean to say it’s always the case. Also, as you said, attitudes probably have changed depending on the generation. Hair removal is viewed differently now, too.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it depends on what matters most to you.
For me, the relationship itself is the priority, and I place a lot of importance on looks, so it wouldn’t affect me at all.
If you place more weight on an adult relationship (intimate) or the specific activities involved—or, like you, on the nature of the kissing—then I think you should make your decision based on what matters most to you.
Since you’re already concerned about it based on your wording, I don’t think there’s much reason to deliberately choose that option.
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Age: 30s
👩 Female
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There was a time when I had braces after joining the club.
Neither I nor the people I dated during that period really cared—we still engaged in those kinds of activities. Kissing and oral sex don’t involve using your teeth, after all...
That said, if I were to turn someone down for that reason, it would be because the man’s mouth or private parts were unhygienic.