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Apr 26, 2026 20:27
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マルケス
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クラブ活動歴だけは３０年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
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I don’t think it’s all that serious.
That said, I think saying you want to pay off your student loans or cover the cost of studying for a qualification would probably be better received. Something that feels like an investment in yourself seems more appealing.
Personally, the one thing I’m least comfortable with is investing in supporting a favorite idol or celebrity. It just feels incredibly unproductive to me, and I don’t like it.
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Age: 50s
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Thanks as always for your questions.
Personally, I can’t deal with women who have heavy reasons for doing this. It’s too much work.
The women in Fuu’s monthly arrangements are working professionals with regular day jobs. Their reasons are relatively light—they just want some extra money for cosmetics and having fun, or a little help paying back their student loans.
I’m also not a fan of women who are full-on papa-katsu professionals. Actresses and models are out too, since they seem like they’d be expensive.
I prefer ordinary working women who casually have around two or three pay-per-meeting papas at most.
いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s
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“I have a dream.”
That’s probably the line that gets you the biggest allowance.
Whether it’s support with living expenses or helping make your family’s dreams come true, I think either is perfectly fine.
You can’t do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without telling some kind of lie, so if I’m going to hear a lie, I’d rather it be one about having a dream.
It’s me.
晴る人局
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🏅 何者でもない
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Age: 20s
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People join a club for all kinds of reasons. Whether it’s for personal growth or to pay off debt, you really don’t need to worry about it too much.
Sure, you may come across some difficult people who don’t want to meet you, but there’s no need to let that get you down. That said, if you’re desperate for money and it shows, the other person may pick up on it and be put off.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
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It’s not heavy at all—in fact, it’s a pretty ordinary reason. The things that would be considered heavy are:
- Having a family member who’s seriously ill or near death
- Looking for someone to marry
アンディ
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
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It’s important to be mindful of what appeals to men, but if you build everything on lies, it’ll come across as shallow and won’t last. You may get more offers, but if they don’t lead to more ongoing arrangements, you’ll probably burn out quickly.
Of course, there are probably women who can play the part so naturally that they outshine professional actresses. But if you ask here and simply follow the advice as-is, the facade will likely slip pretty quickly.
The many women I continue to see have all sorts of reasons for doing this, but not a single one of them is doing it to pay off family debt, student loans, or anything along those lines. Maybe that’s just a coincidence, though.
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Age: Private
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I think it’s fine to simply be honest about your reason.