Tips Apr 25, 2026 22:42

My married papa (a male supporter) in a monthly arrangement keeps asking whether I’m seeing anyone else. In this case, would it be better if I had someone else?

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He’s very curious, so maybe he wants to hear about my other papas? That said, I’m worried about illnesses and things like that, so even if I did see someone else, it would probably be dinner only (no intimacy)…
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even if you stick to just one papa because you’re worried about STIs, there’s still a risk if that papa is seeing multiple people. If you don’t have any other papas, it seems like you can simply tell him that. Whether your papa is happy or disappointed probably depends on the individual. I don’t think most people would normally say something like, “What, you don’t have, like, ten other papas? That’s no fun,” lol.
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> That said, I’m worried about illnesses, so even if I do see someone else, it would probably just be dinner only (no intimacy)… Why not just tell him exactly that? Something like: “For now, I don’t have any other papa (male supporter). I’m worried about illnesses, so even if I do see someone else, it would probably just be dinner only (no intimacy).” I think that would be perfectly fine. Rather than worrying about whether you should see someone else, this seems like something you can be honest about without any problem.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
There are plenty of them♡ But tell them, “You’re my favorite, so keep me exclusively for ¥1 million a month~” Then pretend to let all ten of them have you exclusively and pocket ¥10 million a month.
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Nine times out of ten, he’s just trying to find out whether you have any other papas, so the safest bet is to copy and paste Maezawa’s line and say it verbatim.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe they’re just curious and want to know. → I suppose that’s probably it. Some people are interested, and some aren’t—it’s hard to say anything more definitive. Personally, if someone tells me about it, I’ll listen, but I’m not the type to pry or ask them about it myself.
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