I’m a Type C woman, and thankfully, I’ve been receiving a lot of offers. Some months, I get up to three new offers a week. Since I’m Type C, does that mean I should move to an adult relationship with all three if we hit it off?
My biggest concern is the risk of STIs from being intimate with three new people in one week. Even if we click, would it be acceptable to decline the first time and say I’d prefer to start from the next meeting?
(I’m doing everything I can to prevent STIs, of course…)
I’d really like to know how others handle situations like this.
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If it’s type C and things don’t progress to an adult relationship (intimate), there may not be a next time. The papa may decide you weren’t a good match and simply not ask you out again.
You should confirm the date as soon as possible, but instead of cramming all your actual dates into the same week, why not spread them out?
Even if you pack them into one week or leave more room in your schedule, the number of times you meet will be the same. So statistically, the risk of an STI is the same either way, though…
You’ll only get a lot of offers at the beginning, so you could push through and accept as many as possible at first, then choose a papa (a male supporter) to continue seeing.
Alternatively, you could talk to the club, temporarily stop your profile from being listed, finish meeting your current offers, and then restart.
Or you could change your dating type to B2 and wait until the next meeting for an adult relationship (intimate). Those are probably your options.
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> Even if you hit it off, would it be okay to pass on the first meeting and start from the second time onward?
In that case, why not change your preference to B2?
With B2, you’re saying that you’d like to have dinner on the first day and begin an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting, so it seems to match what you want.
With C, “passing on the first meeting” means that you didn’t hit it off. So if you pass, it indicates that you don’t intend to continue seeing him.
It’s possible that some men might be willing to wait if you explain the circumstances, but I think most men would wonder, “Then why not choose B2?” If the club received that kind of message from a man, they’d probably contact him to say something like, “It seems you’ve selected the wrong dating type.”
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When arranging dates, couldn’t you just limit it to two people a week and schedule one of them for the following week?
When I make an offer, I give them several possible dates up to three weeks in advance.
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As others have said, wouldn’t it be enough to simply accept fewer offers? You’re the one who decides whether to take them or not.
Alternatively, you could make it a B2 arrangement and manage things while adjusting as you go.
If you’re getting lots of offers, keeping up with both new people and repeat meetings must be tough!
But if you stay on top of your schedule, you’ll have created the ultimate unbeatable setup!
Good luck.
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