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Apr 23, 2026 18:02
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However, I have a youthful face for my age, I’m short, dress pretty normally, wear simple makeup, have never dyed my hair, and don’t even get lash lifts. Because of that, I feel like I often don’t really appeal to papas (male supporters).
Do you think it’s better to have at least a little of the glamorous look you see at hostess clubs or lounges?
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
What do you think?
Personally, I much prefer women in casual everyday clothes—like a hoodie, cap, and pants.
I guess the right answer is probably to dress according to where you’re meeting and who you’re meeting.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should lead with your hobbies or special skills.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Thanks for all the questions you keep posting every day!
The Q&A box is really lively, haha.
Since many papas want to date women who are:
- Former hostesses or women who work in nightlife
- Not overly flashy
- Ordinary working women or university students
Women who look baby-faced or somewhat youthful—depending on the degree—yet have an effortless, subtly sexy, refined, and innocent vibe seem to be popular here.
Black hair, dresses, and a TV-announcer-like style are popular too.
There are also quite a few ordinary-looking, slightly plain-but-cute women who seem a little unsophisticated, yet get tons of likes and probably receive plenty of offers.
Some women look innocent but are somehow alluring—the kind who naturally appeal to men.
Papas aren’t only looking for women who are beautiful or flashy.
50半ばのオッサン
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🏅 特に無し
ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I prefer an ordinary girl. When I’m having tea with someone who looks like a hostess, I can’t help worrying about what people around us think.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’d like you to send a photo so I can see just how cute you are.
The upload feature should be available.
I feel like someone with a cute look may not pull off a more glamorous, beautiful style very well. If you’re more of a cute type, you might be better off presenting yourself that way.
That said, it’s also important to try it and see how things turn out, so I think it’s worth giving it a shot.
マルケス
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クラブ活動歴だけは30年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Men’s preferences vary, of course, but if someone looks too ordinary, I don’t really feel motivated to make an offer through a dating club.
Personally, I’m not into women who are overly flashy. I tend to prefer someone who looks refined and modest, but still has a certain sparkle to her.